I dress most of the time I much perfer to be dressed as and look like a female so tell me your honest opinion about what you think of my lifestyle I am not gay
2007-11-23 06:58:15 · 42 answers · asked by carolyn g 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would like to point out that the question that was found about me being a Lesbian was not pun up by me it was put up by someone who I though was a friend and found out what my password was I was very upset and annoyed about that I am not a lesbian in fact i am not even a female but i do take a lot o care to look as feminin as possible when dressed as one
2007-11-24 20:18:04 · update #1
wow ur quite pretty! and i am in no position to judge your lifestyle. live your life and have fun! ;-)
2007-11-23 07:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 3⤋
Well my life style is much the same as yours and I think you look great and if that's what makes you happy then go ahead and do it.Good luck hun I hope you keep enjoying fem side and don't worry about any of the crap comments you might get for every bad one there is usually 100 good to come I know this now as I have been getting out more and more and have found if don't shove it down peoples throats they either ignore you or compliment you hope that happens for you.
2007-11-25 18:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Leah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question of your gender can only be truly answered by you. Sorry no quick fix or simple solutions, just a lot of soul searching, hopefully with the help and support of some good friends. Good luck on your quest & hope you find your answer soon. Oh and for the record I agree with msmonroe you are pretty & your kinda cute also.
"ABOVE ALL ELSE TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE"
2007-11-23 08:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Druid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky to be able to do that. I dress when I am working as a maid and these days I don't get much opportunity. You look good. take no notice of silly people who tell you you are sick they do not have sufficient knowledge about transsexualism or transvestism to be qualified to make any judgement.
2007-11-23 10:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I just saw your picture and you look gorgeous. I think you should say as a female. the small picture of you looks great and from what I can see of it you have a great female bod. btw what is your age?
I have a gf who is transgendering. I love her and we intend to marry one day.
I wish you much luck and if you'd like to chat more contact me through yahoo messenger tallflmaster53
Take care, Master V
2007-11-25 23:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by tallflmaster53 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Carolyn, You sure look like a very pretty girl to me. You look so feminine I would never suspect that you are a boy. I think you were meant to dress and live as a female. So I think your lifestyle is OK. But I would think that as such a pretty girl you would enjoy having a cute boy friend.
2007-11-23 07:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by prettiestgirliegirl 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I think it's great, I wish I had your body because I'm stuck with a really masculine body and I could never pull of looking like a girl when really I'm a girl on the inside.
I seriously do wish I was you as I can't even see how you could possibly be a boy.
2007-11-24 05:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lily R 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have looked at the site Jake 0670 mentioned and it is true you are on it saying you are a gay lesbian. I feel a fool now saying the things above. I am undecided whether to delete them off or not. What are you - a newspaper reported getting tips. or just generally kinky ?
Note added: I decided - I have deleted.
2007-11-23 07:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sally Anne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is a difference between transexualism-that is, someone identifying with a gender other than that of their birth, and trasvestitism-cross dressing. Most transexuals are not gay. They simply feel that they are not born into the correct body.
In the middle of that spectrum is gender dysphoria and medical transexualism, which is usually caused by hormone deficencies that cause undeterminate gender (ie, males with female sexual organs or vice versa).
Confusing right?
Gender is not nearly as static as we think it is.
Your question isn't specific as to whether you feel like you are a woman or whether you just like to dress as a woman.
I think all three issues (mental transexual, medical transexual and cross-dressers) are three very different things and have different causes and meanings. Plus, there are different cultural taboos broken for all cases.
But yeah-personally, I have no problem with it. I love dressing my boyfriend in panties and a short skirt. Reow!!!
2007-11-23 07:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
I wouldn't have guessed and would initally be happy to make the mistake. I would have to be much more open-minded to take things further. I'd certainly be game for a bit of snogging!
2007-11-23 07:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You are very attractive, Carolyn.
I don't get any sense of maleness from your photo.
If you identify yourself as a woman, and feel that is who you truly are, then that is the path you should follow.
I wish you well.
2007-11-23 07:45:47 · answer #11 · answered by sandyblondegirl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋