did you ever lose someone close?

Question

a best friend a family member or a boy/girlfreind?
how did you mange ?

Answer 1

A friend of mine named Marilyn.
She died very close to our birthdays this year.
It took about 3 days till i was done crying and what not, but I just told myself that she isn't suffering anymore, (She died from a sickness) and that one day i could track down her grave if i wanted.

Did you lose someone?
Your questions are making me wonder.

Answer 2

Many but am 63
the older you get the more people that you know will die off ,
that is life ,dealing with death

But unfortunately or fortunately ,it never ,screwed me up any ,
maybe sad at the time for a bit.

when my mother died ,i was holding her hand ,
i felt bad for a month .My dad died 6 months later and i was shocked because it was unexpected
but it was the sense of loss more than anything else in both cases
my brother was different he cried .

Answer 3

I lost my Pop Pop at a very young age. I don't remember to much, but I can still feel the pain in my heart thinking about him & the fact that I didn't get to hang out with him more. I'm not really any help I guess, sorry!

Answer 4

dropping somebody is something that may not possible to recover from. the only factor you're able to do is be beneficial and concentration on the stable situations you shared. i've got lost many close friends and kinfolk regrettably and have discovered to comprehend that this is a factor of existence. while somebody passes faraway from an ailment I proceed to tell myself that they are actually not suffering, and are actually at peace. continually be beneficial to maintain your head up.

Answer 5

My cousing was twenty-four when she shot herself. She had a two-year-old son who witnessed it. The way I managed was falling into a depressed state for a little while. I'm back on track now. She married a sixy-seven year old man. A rich one, too. He put her on a pedastal and fed her pills and alcohol, and drugs. She was driven to her death. That was four years ago though.

Answer 6

Mum,Dad,Sister and Brother.It takes time to get over it and I still miss them terribly but I found talking about them and the good/funny things that happened helped me more than keeping it inside.When I speak about them I still feel they are here with me, it's just that I can't see them.I think everyone handles it differently but you have to move on,that's what they would want I'm sure.

Answer 7

my grandmother did, when she was a baby, she had an older sister of about 10 years old, maybe even younger, and a little brother and both of her parents died. so only the kids were left and all of them were from infant to like 10 years. the eldest sister, 10, did of brain cancer and my grandmother and her little brother were left alone with no one at all. their neighbors had to take care of them and the neigbors were really crule to them.they would bat them with a large heavy stick and make them bleed. if i knew those neighbors, id hang them by their necks and hair...

Answer 8

Yes. You grieve. You feel really awful. You miss them terribly. And you honor their memory, by keeping on.

One of the "problems" with getting older, isn't getting old..it's that the people you care about die. Getting old is easy, it happens. Losing people who mean so much to you...that's tough.

Answer 9

My dad-about six years ago.He was only 59..I was real hard but I had to manage it because at the time I had a six month old son and he needed me..

Answer 10

lets see, first my mom, than dad, grandfather, grand mother, 2 aunts an uncle, and most recent my husband! i'm stiil trying to cope with that loss, but time does heal, he's will just take more time.