Here's the whole story. My sister caught my best friends boyfriend with her (BF) sister. Messing around when they were drunk. He denied the whole thing and my best friend believed him. I don't but anyways. She's mad at my sister and now my other sister is getting married. we are all in the wedding party and my best friend is trying to make plans to plan the wedding at her place excluding my other sister. I thought that was totally rude so I called her out on it and said that she shouldn't try to do that. She got mad at me and now is mad and ignoring me.
Shouldn't she be happy I was honest and told her what others (I wasn't the only one who thought she was being mean) said about her. So she's happy with everything but she is my very best friend and now I feel like crap. Should I apologize or just move on from this immature so called best friend of mine. I'm not going to let someone treat my sister like crap because She thinks the mess around was a rumor.
2007-11-23 05:18:37 · 3 answers · asked by dazed&confused81 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You shouldn't feel guilty for telling it like it is to your best friend. She knew and everybody knew that what she is doing is not right. People have the tendency to be angry with others when it comes to telling the truth and they know it. Your friend didn't want anyone to tell her that what she is doing is wrong. I applaud you for calling it out on your best friend and you should definitely be proud of yourself. Talk to her about the situation and let her know that you will not apologize for what you said and this issue really needed to be addressed, but you are sorry on HOW you said it. Tell her that you will always be there for her but it is up to her to face the truth head on. If your best friend doesn't decide to accept what you said to her, at least you will know who your true best friend is. Whatever you decide to do is entirely up to you- even if it is walking out on the wedding. Good luck and everything will work out.
2007-11-23 05:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes the truth hurts and she is not so mature if she is mad at u and it is ok to move on but u telling the truth that is another step in ur friendship and not to be mean and she needs to grow up i mean it is life and she should grow up i mean honestly i would move on if i were u but u it is ur chose seriously if she is ingnoreing u she is a immature person so move on
2007-11-23 13:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
having talked about it with her you should wait for her to come around to her senses and apologize. Though you may be waiting a while!
2007-11-23 13:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by nuclear_radiation_hazzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋