2007-11-23 04:56:26 · 56 answers · asked by Buddy Hodor 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Never!!!
Not until the last day I live in this life.
What else is there to live for, anyway? ;)
2007-11-23 14:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ipek K 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For the unsavory lifestyle, the meaning of love is obsolete. It's wham, bam, see you again-wherever. Those you bypass.
Besides, why would anyone want to give up on love? The main person to love is yourself! Your family and close friends that you consider family! If, you encounter someone who's heart is in the right place. Then, that is someone to embrace.
2007-11-23 05:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by flying hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had for a while; till i met and now am going with the man of all my dreams; and fantasies ; so no i have not given up' i have only just began,.,
2007-11-23 05:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Cami lives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but sometimes it feels like love has given up on me.
2007-11-23 14:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by The Evolution of T. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No
Although I never knew or seemed to learn what love was at first.
Love is being always.......keeping on with someone for the long haul.........it is forgiving their every and many faults every night and starting each day anew.
Love is always being there.
To love means to trust fully.
When I grew up we didn't see our mom and dad hugging or kissing. We never knew what emtions went with Love.
All I could see is that it meant two people getting married and having a family, work hard, have Holidays. The dad being the supporter and mom being the cook, cleaner, gardener, etc etc etc.
So when I first married ( about the same age we were) I figured all guys were like my dad. If they took their vows they would be the provider and everything would be just fine.
Wow! What an eye opener......he was mean, cruel and a wife beater.........5 months after our son was born I had to call my sister to come get me before we were both dead. He threatened to kill me in front of my sister. Thinking this....he had something mentally wrong with him.
So I was introduced to my next husband. I never knew a thing about alcohol.......or that such a thing as being an alcoholic. Found that out......and if your an alcoholic you are probably more than just that...he was.........and I had 2 more boys. 3 sons and a divorce.....if they would have had womens shelters back then------yipee.....there was a whole lot going on that I don't have time to type about and would be too long of a story...and you all don't want to know how bad things can be, and the trickery, etc. I had picked him because he was much older and probably had more sense.
So I am divorced with 3 kids. Now I know that I should have someone with inteligence right? He was younger than me by 2 years. Get this: His mom said to his dad and him.....maybe if you would've picked someone younger........after they found out about his 1st affair. His mom died when we were still Married. I stayed with him for 10 years.......putting up with his being a habitual liar along with 3 affairs that I found out about.....probably more than that I finally concluded.....and he was supposed to be intelligent? What intelligence is there in that? He even was supposed to be a Born Again Christian according to the Penecostal belief. He wasn't.
It is better gals to leave with a clean break after the first time ........but I stayed on being stupid thinking he would change....hope kept diminishing. I finally divorced him. I had hoped on our vows.
Why are men such liars when taking their vows....it's like it goes right over their heads.
Now what is there left? Huh? Remember I an getting experiece, and learning, and educated....and still decide not to give up on love.
Bang! it happened.....my 4th marriage. I think this time I really meant my vows, because I am still in it. When something bad happens....I try to ignore it, or do something that will take my mind off it.
I mostly like his companionship, although I love the quiet. He is lazy and complains everytime he has to do something. He is 9 years younger than I. Neither of us use the age thing for love. He used to think that Lust was love....till he learned the difference. I think he had one affair...but you see I have no proof.....just my senses and un-ignorance of happenings. But I am 97% sure.
That is no longer the point....because I do think it was just lust.....I think she was a nympho. I don't trust Him anymore. There are a number of things I do not like about him anymore....and the older he gets .............! The numbers grow.
But I have chosen to continue to love him because I should.
2007-11-23 05:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by LandOfMisty 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I have give up on love. I have never been in love, and I'm not planning on looking for love at my age, since my best friends have been in waaaaaaaay too many break-ups than I can count, and that just makes me kinda scared of broken hearts.
2007-11-23 04:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
giving up is for the weak. not that we dont all have our weaknesses but love isnt something that is just going to be there or work out the way you want it to. there is a plan for everything and maybe the reason why things happen to make people give up on love is just something that is happening so something better can come of it. nothing bad has ever happened without later looking back and realizing that it happened because something else needed to happen instead. i had been dating a guy for 2 years and i had started doing drugs with him. one night i came home, and i had been caught. i was given a drug test by my mother and i confessed to her what she would find. she told my boyfriend if she ever found out he had come near me again, she would put a restraining order on him. i was devastated because he was my best friend. but i later realized that, had he been in my life still, i probably wouldnt be sober today. while i was in the treatment center, he had hooked up with another girl. my mom kept trying to tell me but i didnt believe her until i found out later, when i was released that it was true. i had been so upset with her, i had screwed up our whole relationship by the time i got out. and then found out that it was all for nothing. i was crushed for a while until i started dating my best friend of 3 years. he is wonderful. he is so supportive of me and everything i am doing. we are on a break right now, and he understands, but even if we werent together, i have realized through all my experiences that when one door closes, another door really does open. it may not be the door you had expected, or even the door you had wanted, but in the end you will realize it was exactly the door that was supposed to open.
2007-11-23 05:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Giggles McGee 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No. Love is the breath of life. I love more now than I ever did in my entire life. It took this long to learn how & to appreciate it.
2007-11-23 05:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by Dianne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-11-23 04:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many Many Times. But love never gave up on me.
2007-11-23 04:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by Pamela 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not really ..it just takes a little while to open up after a hard time Breakup phase...
How about you D ...have you given up on love ? lol just curious...
2007-11-23 09:24:53 · answer #11 · answered by Elizabeth N 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋