I told my friend id go shopping with her tomorow because she has been ill and just got better. She is my best friend and we do go shopping alot though.
Today though a friend of mine asked me if i wanted to go ice skating with her and a few other friends. I was in a bit of hurry and wasn't thinking straight, so I said yes without thinking about it. So now ive said yes to both people and i don't know which one to go to,because i said yes to shopping first but i don't really do much with this other girl much.
Ahh! I don't know what to do. I can't do both either becasue the icerink is in a park quite away from town. Also my best friend is hates iceskating! Help! =/
2007-11-23 04:43:40 · 15 answers · asked by Kαtydid ★ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay,i'm giving you a nice trick....better..you go first with your friend to shopping....shop with her and then (purposely)go towards the shop where ice skates are sold.....React(as if really) and say "Ohh My God,Actually i had to go for ice-skating with my friends...i promised them 5 days before..." And then..ask her only what to do....ask her"What do you think?""Should i break my promise as i am with you? Or Should i Go there with you??? i'll do only that you tell me....but i know you dont like ice-skating..(Start crying somewhat)...Add..."I'm Really Confused".....
I think,this would do....
2007-11-23 19:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
There is no dilemma, the clear choice is keeping your word; go shopping with your friend. Who is the better friend, or which activity, you think, may be more enjoyable is irrelevant. You probably, will enjoy the shopping trip more, because you will feel good about keeping your word. If you go ice skating, you may feel guilty, and not really enjoy the skating.
It is perfectly okay, to tell your friend, who invited you to go skating, your acceptance of her invitation was in error, i.e., you failed to recall the prior commitment, at the moment.
2007-11-24 10:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could ask the girl who asked u to go ice skating and the other the girls that r going with her if she would want to go shopping but first ask the girl that invited u to go shopping if she would mind some other girls come along with u. If she says that she does mind then tell her that u will go shopping with her since she asked u first and that u can go iceskating with the other girl later. maybe u could do both and do it at another time today.
2007-11-23 12:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, even though you said you'd go shopping first, you can ask your friend to reschedule since you don't get to see these friends much. She should understand, if she's your best friend like you say she is. If she seems hurt or offended though, just go shopping, and tell the other friends that you forgot you already had plans.
Simple as that.
2007-11-23 12:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dev B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where do u really want to go A shopping or B ice skating if say u wanted to go ice skating more then theres your answer say that u will go shopping the next day do what u want to do not because u feel guilty cause u feel u letting them down i say pick ice skating then shopping the next day are u going to that ice rink in market square in nottingham me and my mum are
2007-11-23 15:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
try making a day where all of u can go shopping then ice skating , u still do both & u don't hurt any feelings!
2007-11-23 12:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by blaqkaudiorox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swing by the ice rink with your friend & explaine the situation then go shopping. Problem solved.
2007-11-23 12:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by farmboy702003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you agreed to first.
just tell your other friends you where not thinking right and agreed to go skating while you had already made plans with someone else. If they are your friends they should understand this.
2007-11-23 12:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by snip_from_mars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go Shopping. It's what you agreed to first.
2007-11-23 12:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you agreed to do first it is the only fair thing that you can do!!!!!!! Just tell your other friends that you cant today, but that you can another time that your friend just got feeling better and you told her FIRST.......
2007-11-23 17:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Country Grl :P 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋