have you ever messed up in life and wanted to go back?

Question

i have ... after 2000-2001.. they were good.. i messed up.. i distanced myself from my family ... became depressed.. developed an eating disorder that ruins everything believe it or not.. it makes me cranky and makes me yell at the people i love and cry over dumb things.. i want to overcome it.. it has ruined my life. i cry about it sometimes.. i want to be happy. i want to feel like i did in 2000...



i would like sincere advice..
or i would like to hear your story... either way




peace & love

love you all <3

i never knew so many people were going through similiar things.. i want to just hug you all.


it will get better i promise.. i hope it gets better for me <3

Answer 1

I hope I don't ruin your life more. I ruin my life a little everyday. My problem is I see all my options and always go for the safest or stupidest option, but when I do go for the right option I feel so good inside.
I think you should take Mean Girls advice and suck out all the poisen in your life. Start by fixing yourself (fix the disorder), then apologies to your family and friends/ppl you love, and then the hard part apologies to the ppl you hurt even if they hurt you or yuo just don't like. By changing everything outside it will slowly change the problem(s) you have on the inside.
PS it will help o stop crying

Answer 2

You have taken the most important step already. You've decided to change. Well Done.

I would advise you to seek medical help. If you are not on anti-depressants then I would suggest you ask your doctors advice. Depression is a chemical imbalance in your brain and you need chemical intervention to correct the imbalance. Most Anti-D's do NOT make you hyper or faux-happy. And there are virtually NO side effects to a lot of anti-d's these days, like Prozac

Once you adapt to the medication, you will realise how much easier it has become to face each day. You will have the desire to talk about your feelings to your family and begin to make positive changes in your life.

I would also suggest you talk to a counsellor or some professional about your feelings.

Answer 3

Yes, I messed up with only man that I will ever love because of pride. Pride has caused more heartache than any word in the English Dictionary. Pride has 2 total different meanings ,pride in your self and all you accomplish is great but pride in relationship's is the cruelest word in the world. Pride can make you say no when all along you want to really want to say yes and can make you turn around and walk away from the love of your life without even trying to fight back. Someone wants you to come talk it over but pride will not let you, it is the most hurting cruelest thing in the world.. It has broke more hearts than anything. Just that one 5 letter world will make you live your life always wondering, what if.

Answer 4

at the end of 7th grade, i became severely depressed. i started realizing things about my life and past. things that wernt good. from being physicly and mentaly abused as a small child. up to not being able to see my biological father. my parents always fighting. and a couple of my family members were dying. and tons of other crap. then i just started realizing how terrible these things were. i was so depressed, i would cut myself on my hips, ankles, wrist, stomach, everywhere. but only little tiny ones cuz i didnt want anyone to know. i would bite myself until i bled, and pinch myself. i wouldnt eat, i couldnt sleep, i had really bad panic attacks. even while i slept i would cry. so many things i would remember. it was hard to maintain a normal life when all of this would clutter in my head. so i started a couple attempts at suicide. i would try to gash my wrist so i would loose enough blood. then, i swallowed some anitidepressants, then i just downed every pill in the house (including some bug poisioning) and washed it down with a bottle of champagn with a note taped to my back saying, "cheers to life". lucky for me, my mom got home in time to take me to the hospital, and have my stomach pumped. she took me to therapy and gave all kinds of anit depressants (which she monitored). but it didnt help. nothing. so one day, i was walking home from school, and i was almost hit by a semi. i felt really scared and thought "wow, i could have just died". and i never had really thought about how that worked. like wow, dying. so its almost as if i was "scared" out of my depression. now i love life and friends and family (and alex) hahaha. and im so happy.

there are things you can do for you. there are hotlines, people on line you can talk to daily (like me). even get some support from you family.

good luck

lurv s

Answer 5

I messed up by delveloping a drug addiction for 3 years which I wish I never did because it messed me up mentally and physically but believe me I learned from my mistake I got help and things have gotten way better my family trusts me and even though I cant go back and change things I did learn from it You can only do things to better yourself dont dwell on the past things happen for a reason I believe to teach us lessons Try first by seeking some counseling and invole your family good luck to you I hope I helped :)

Answer 6

To be honest i wouldn't be sure what to do. I have felt that way about someone, but i let it go and we became acquaintances. This guy does sound annoying but if you let it go then he can't touch you. It sounds like he wants to provoke you. So don't give him what he wants. Don't think about it because that will only make you more aggravated. Also it sounds to me that he is trying to become popular. He probably doesn't think he is cool, but he wants people to think he's cool. Don't give him the time of day. He's a loser.

Answer 7

yeah, I became depressed after my 4th boyfriend broke up with me, became distance from my friends and family, stopped eating, my grades dropped, I stopped turning my homework, cry over stupid things and mostly yell at my loved ones. I want to just move on with my life.

~HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)

Answer 8

I messed up my life and wanted to go back, but we cant so we need to improve our lives and hope it gets better.

go to a clinic or your doctor or a hospital or talk to someone you can trust and tell them you want help. admitting it on here is the first step now go improve your life. i wish you luck. promise it will get better.

Answer 9

i have messed up alot of stuff in my life...and wish i could take most of it back. but just know that alot of people are going through pretty much the same thing as you

Answer 10

tuesday would make it a yr that i cheated on my bf. i told him everyting and we are still together but our relationship has changed significantly since then. i wish i could go back and avoid the incedent so my bf and i would be happy again.