in politics class my bff's and i are trying to figure this out. Did he lead me on??? this guy i work with and i have been flirting for 3 months. he started flirting with me first and all i did was respond to it. he would always give me hugs all the time, and one time after work he asked me if i had a boyfriend and what do i look for in a guy. he also told me that he has been single for a year because in his past relationship his girl cheated on him. and i remember one time when he hugged me he slightly touched my *ss. but anyways i know for a fact that he was interested in me and i fell for him hard. so one day we were talking on msn and i asked him when he wants to chill cuz he would always say i should come over and visit him sometime and he said "i have to see when im available" i was like okay. also before i asked him if he was talking to anyone meaning if he is dating anyone and he said no. then 2 weeks later we have this conversation on msn:
2007-11-23 04:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Politics
me-wat u doing friday
him- im going shopping in new york
me- thats too bad i was gonna tell u im free fri
him- lol so how are the boys treating u? have you found that special one yet
me- no have u?
him- ye im kind of talking to someone right now
me- really who
him- lol u wouldnot know her
me- I don’t understand u
him- I mean u don’t know her so if I tell u her name it is pointless
me- noo not that, nvm
him- what then tell me
me- lol u play games
him- I don’t play games. I didn’t lead u on, cuz if I did I would have kissed you up and stuff but I didn’t. we didn’t talk on the phone everyday, we didn’t even chill outside of work. I didn’t lead u on, sure we flirted here and there but it was all verbal, nothing physical.
Me- ok true but u did other things to make me think otherwise
Him- all I did was give u hugs and asked you questions to get to know u cuz i really dont…
then he goes offline.
2007-11-23 04:07:07 · update #1
so my question is was he never interested in me to begin with? or did he lead me on? and why did he push me away?
2007-11-23 04:08:38 · update #2
omg... dont you want to post this in the relationships area?? quit f'n around in class.
2007-11-23 04:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
My opinion: He thought he was just playing or he may have been looking for more but playing two girls at the same time and the other one for some reason became "available" sooner than you did so he went with her. He isn't treating you right and you don't want any part of that. It hurts and aggravates now, but you are really better off. Move on.
2007-11-23 04:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by dkrgrand 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he used you for some unknown reason. You may have been the thing in the begining but something changed his mind. But he sorta keeps you hanging out there just in case he needs to put the move on you for real.
2007-11-23 04:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by mtchndjnmtch2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMMM forget about this man seems as though he just flirting with you, to be honest but if a guys likes you i am sure he will tell you eventually hate when guys play games. Good luck.
2007-11-23 04:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by missey01_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You read WAY too much into his actions. All he was doing was being friendly.
He clearly has some other girl he's interested in as a gf. He sees you as a friend.
2007-11-23 04:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 01:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lead you on, but it happens all the time. If he did it and doesnt want to talk to you now... hes not worth your time at all! Dont worry youll find your special some one
2007-11-23 04:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is immature. Forget him and go out tonight with your girl friends, have a few drinks and find a new guy.
((if he is going shoping. . .are you sure he is interested in girls?))
2007-11-23 04:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Chevygirlfxr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is sick and tired of you being an idiot. You are so dumb, you could not even figure out this does not belong in politics. If he sees this, RUUUUNNNNNN! you are one scary dumb girl!
2007-11-23 04:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he was interested and then found someone else. Forget him.
2007-11-23 04:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by munxkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just flirting with you, and when you called him on it, he got scared and ran. He was just having fun, but I don't think he intentionally "led you on".
2007-11-23 04:11:04 · answer #11 · answered by personalstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋