Literally i check if my partner was with other gf negative.I check if my partners gay negative.When offer partner intimacy asking to come over or i go over partner said no.My partners 36 self mid 20s both work as professionals.We were long distance few years kept in touch online when used to call me names but on phone or in person partners fine.We are together from start of holidays.What reasons can be there if no other gf or not gay.Therapy didnt work.We want to save marriage & love eachother very much.
2007-11-23 03:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe the sex isn't as fulfilling as it once was. If so, maybe you two can make it a little more interesting by trying some new things. It doesn't have to be every time, but every once in a while. Try getting a vibrator or other toy that you're willing to try. Maybe try some whipped cream. Look around and see if there is something that interests you both. These things should be done together. Try and be open to trying new things. You both want this marriage to work and survive, so give it a try and see if it will work. If not, then try something else. There are all kinds of ways to put the excitement back into sex. : )
2007-11-23 03:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could the love be dead?
If BOTH of you are wanting to save your marriage .. then WHY are you having problems with HIM? He wants to save the marriage, too .. right ? .. as you said in your question.
Why don't you live together? You say you ask him if you could come over for intimacy?
If there is no GF .. and he is not gay .. and he does not want intimacy with you .. and you do not live together .. and therapy does not work .. then HOW can BOTH of you love each other very much .. and both of you want to save your marriage?
This does not make sense.
The only thing I can think of .. is that for some reason he does not want to be with you .. but does not want a divorce for some reason. Is there a financial reason?
All these things does not sound like 2 people who love each other very much .. and who BOTH people want to save their marriage. If both people want these same 2 things together .. then there should be no problem with saving the marriage. There is more to this.
2007-11-23 12:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him to bed and then call me over.
2007-11-23 11:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by old-softy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad
2007-11-23 11:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R.I.P or give CPR
2007-11-23 12:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say c-h-e-a-t-e-r..............
2007-11-23 11:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋