How to move on living with your spouse after loosing your trust and respect.But you can't think of putting your children as victim,especially you'r financially crippled and no friend,relative or family to turn too
2007-11-23 03:46:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have lost trust in your husband and respect for him, you need to move on for your sake and the sake of your children. If he has been violent at all , you can go to a domestic violence shelter and get help there. Otherwise perhaps go to social services and talk to someone there. Perhaps counseling will help with the relationship but it is harder for children when you are in a relationship with no trust or respect than it is for them to be in a single parent household. I will give you a link to life choices and you may get some help there. I wonder if your self esteem never had a chance to recover after the first divorce and so you ended up in this relationship so you need help with that to prevent picking a third bad relationship as well. Look the site over and you will find some good information here that may help you. Good luck!!
2007-11-23 03:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 01:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you need to do is move out how can you live with somebody you don't trust be a woman go get a job don't depend on him hand and foot talking about you don't trust him how you know he want find somebody come home and throw you and kids out his house you have got to grow up sitting on a time bomb that will go off you are crippling your kids when you allow them to see mama without a backbone i raise 4 kids 2 divorces and now my kids are grown mens and woman i work took care of them didn't sit around for welfare nor child support he paid every blue moon they were my babies they look up to me i clean condoes work construction highways and industries plants it was legal and real money come on no excuses they don't float in my kids eyes mama is there hero twins ages 34-31-25 thank GOD i made it thru
2007-11-23 04:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I get your drift. If you cannot come to some agreement with your spouse, find a lover to get you through the day. It does not have to be physically consummated, just someone to appreciate you for you, to listen to you without judgment, to share a few stolen moments away from your torturous existence.
2007-11-23 03:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Slick98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS A TWICE DIVORCED WOMAN, IT WAS HARDER THE 2nd TIME CAUSE I SPENT MORE TIME WITH THAT HUSBAND. I CLUNG TO MY KIDS & WORK. THEN AFTER I HAD NO ONE ELSE TO TURN TO, I TURNED TO GOD. I GAVE MY LIFE TO CHRIST & ITS BEEN THE BEST EVER SINCE. NOW THAT MAY NOT BE WHAT YOU WANT TO DO, BUT I GUARANTEE YOU WILL NEVER FEEL ALONE AGAIN. GIVING YOUR LIFE TO GOD HAS BEEN THE BEST THING. THEN ONE DAY, GOD PLACED A WONDERFUL MAN IN MY LIFE AFTER 10YRS. WE BOTH HAVE GOD IN OUR LIVES & ITS WONDERFUL. BE CAREFUL WHO YOU BEFRIEND DURING YOUR TIME ALONE BECAUSE EVERYONE IS NOT FOR YOUR BEST INTEREST. ENJOY LIFE TO THE FULLEST. STOP SITTING IN THE HOUSE MAKING YOURSELF MISERABLE. FIND YOUR PEACE & PLACE IN LIFE. AND IF ALL ELSE FAILS, SEEK GODS FACE.
2007-11-23 04:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once bitten twice shy in love
2007-11-23 03:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but you are rite what can you do im in the same position there is nothing children first rite?
2007-11-23 03:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by bril 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is your question in some kind of code? I don't understand it
2007-11-23 03:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋