Are many of the very good ones always taken???

Question

meaning marriage here.

good ole fashioned marriage.

WHY SO??

THEY SAY SINGLE LIFE IS MORE FUN...BUT I AM IN DISAGREEMENT.

IT REALLY IS LONELY.

ATLEAST FOR ME IT IS.

I MEAN , WHY ARE THE GOOD ONES ALWAYS TAKEN??

MAYBE THIS IS A REALLY SIMPLE QUIESTION TO ANSWER.

I THINK IT IS.

Answer 1

thas not true

1 in 3 marriages end in divorce now adays
they cant all be good


maybe your just not looking hard enough sweetie
the 'perfect' man may be closer than you think!

Answer 2

No, but I think alot are because some people know a good one when they see it. There not afraid to take the leap.
I feel it's more about chemistry, and yeah, being in my early 30's I'm starting to feel that life is alot more interesting when you have someone to share it with.
As far as the good ole fashion marriage, well, times have really changed. People are probably thinking first and most before taking the leap.

The economy is not good, education is at an all time low, strange things happen in schools and our American troops are in Iraq and many more places.
Having a child is expensive not to mention supporting a household. Nowadays, both people are working in a marriage,and that doesn't leave much time to themselves. Back in the hay days, the woman stayed home to raise the kids while her husband was working.
Today, it's probably different because alot of women have come out with this feminism thing, or it could be possible that more men have finally come out of the closet. who knows?

There are alot of good ones out there, just don't look too hard and go to all the wrong places like a club to find one. Im not saying bad people go to clubs, but if your in a drinking environment, the person might not remember giving you her number. Get my drift?
Try meeting someone through a friend, and if you don't have enough friends make some. Sometimes the best jobs and relationshipa have come about this way. If you find someone in church, that could be a problem too if their a holy roller, and don't even allow you to say certain words around them. Christians are fine, just not the ones that try to control you.
Take a trip on a train, you will meet alot of people, I did.
Hope that helped.
First and foremost, don't ever expect or take advantage, that is just looking for failure. LET IT FLOW. Get to know them, before making so many judgements, no ones perfect.

Answer 3

I think people know when they have a good one and make sure they keep hold of them.

I know what you mean about being lonely, when out I do get a bit jealous of seeing couples enjoying each others company.

Answer 4

The good ones are out there you just have to know where to look.....and being in the right place at the right time does not hurt either.

Answer 5

Yes many good ones are but its very hard to search for the best ones

Answer 6

took me 16 years and a failed marriage to find "good un" i'd given up and was quite happy being on me todd ..... but they are out there and have have a tendency to pop up when you aint looking for them......i got remarried a month ago.....it does happen

Answer 7

They are like parking spaces - good ones are taken
..the rest are handicapped !

Answer 8

There's a secondary market in divorcees after a while.
Don't worry!

Answer 9

I'd love to be single again, but the wee girl does love me and I couldn't break her wee heart.

Answer 10

You've answered your own question. They are taken because they are good. You'll find someone, just in time.