I want to know how many people can say its a way to get to know the right person or share your views....
This is not to hurt anyone... just to see how many people say what.... negative or positive....
To me, I feel its a good way to get to know someone minus the dating and doing things where you get to regret later instead a chance to get to know someone....
2007-11-22 21:31:06 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Dear Mafia Girl!!!
If I brand you as belonging to a big group of Mafia Gang????
It is Just basing on your name here.
It is just like that if we have to certify love through Internet.
I agree 100 % that it is a media, through which we can get some kind of introduction, some kind of understanding, before you go ahead actual love.
But we have to always keep remembering that, if any hints are given to us, to size up their stature, they may not be true but fictious. They may be true or not true. We should keep this much cleavage, so that we need not repent at a later stage.
Saying about oneself is different from his/her behaving in situation. It is not cheating either. One would like to behave in a fashion, but may fail to behave like that owing to circumstantial pressures.
Hence I repeat it is not negative always. But still behaviour is different from telling that they behave like such. So we have to exercise caution to receive completely differnt background when we actually meet them.
It is only luck to get a real lover.
2007-11-24 01:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by kbk_murthi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
. In-deed on-line love can become true love tHough it is well not guaranteed. It is un-like:ly tu bec0me the real thing if it is confined tu the Net, soe meet up!
. THis question produced an interestinng feast of missing the pointe, and igh will examine the misses in ,igh hope, sufficient detail.
:: ♫kellylizzz♫ "I think that you should meet the person in life and stuff." Quite agree, but the _Q_ eighnt ~Can on-line love ... without meeting the person?~
davidis99 "I don't think you can fall in love online, but you can get to know someone well enough to care about them a lot." Again igh agree, but the _Q_ eighnt ~Can you fall in love on-line?~ It can bec0me true love when you meet for real. Or fizzle out!
Selva "i dont think, it will be true love." Don't think ::what:: will be true love? A crush on the Net maye well not be true love, but can it bec0me true love?
Valentine "no way anyone can lie and pretend to be different online." If tHat is the reason for "no way" tHen lie and pretense must be inherent in net-contact. If lie and pretense are not inherent in net-contact tHen the answer must be Improbable.
RedStrawberryFields "... but its not the same as knowing them personally." The _Q_ eighnt ~Can on-line love ... without knowing them personally?~
ram "no [...] on line people get time to think and change their opinions..." THerefore tHey ::must:: change their opinions. Sorry mate, non sequitur.
If any-one w0uld like tu dis:agree with mygh not terribly kind analysis, get in t0uch via e-mail or at LiveJournal. Cheers!
2007-11-24 08:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by croak108 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe love can happen anytime, anyplace, through anyway (online) possible. The circumstances don't matter either. A great reason to do these online things is to get to know other and share views and opinions. Totally!
It seems to me by reading this question you don't have the greatest of luck dating people in-person at first and so far. Just sharing a view. No offense.
ERRRROOF!
2007-11-23 04:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a good way to get to know someone ONLY if what they are saying and how they react are genuine but how can you possibly know that?
An invisible person can be anyone,how do you know I'm not a 40 year old man pretending to be a mature lady,I could email you pictures but they could be of anyone,I would use caution with anyone on here.I don't want to sound morbid or take away the fun and really nice comments that I myself have received but it's a dangerous world out there!
2007-11-22 22:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've become very close to someone I met on Y!A over the past couple of months. We haven't met yet and I'm sure we will even though we live maybe 160ish miles away but we have learnt alot about each other and it feel right to take the next steps.
Distance is always going to be an issue (depending on your situations) but i believe its a good way to meet someone.
2007-11-22 21:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that on the odd occasion it may work, but it is something that a person needs to be extremely careful about as what you see is not necessarily what you get. Also written word can never express true feeling and can be interpreted by the reader in many different ways.
2007-11-22 21:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definately a big YES!
but you should keep in mind that there is many frauds in this issue.. so be alert, smart, carefull and give me your email adress =D
kidding =p
Also keep in mind that it might turn into a big pain if both ends are like in different worlds or planets or countries or whatever.. when its (rather hard not impossible) to meet eventually in real life. since when the relation climbs up the ladder, you cant just stick to a chat messenger or program forever. So try to keep your radars on people in range of your reach, otherwise it can seriously get so painfull and hurting.
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Trying to help =)
2007-11-22 21:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Prince 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well,I've never done the on-line dating thing before,i always thought it was silly.. BUT then by pure chance i met someone.. well to be honest i can't say without a doubt that we are madly in love,but i can say i am falling madly in love with her.. so to answer your question i think this is a great way to meet the right person,and no matter what the final outcome i think the risk is worth the reward.. so if this is something you think you want to explore i say "go for it".. you just might find your soul-mate......
2007-11-22 22:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you about the necessity of finding out about someone and if they are compatiple, before things get into sex and the emotions that sex and a romantic relationship develope.
One of the problems with "online love", is that you really don't get to know the person even if it feels as if you do. Even in dating in person, each person puts their best foot forward. I have found that I need to know more than what the person tells me and even more than how the person treats me.
I have to get to know how the person treats their parents, friends, and enemies. Yes, enemies. Jesus said we are to do good to our enemies. I think you can tell a lot about a person's true character by how they treat the people they don't like.
True love is the Agape kind of love that Jesus and Paul talked about. We have found true love when we have found someone who loves us with agape love and we love the them same way.
Agape love is impossible for someone who does not have a good character. It follows then, that no matter how we "feel" about someone, if they have a bad character, they cannot be our True Love because they can't love us with an agape type of love.
I know that this is somewhat of an acedamic question you put forth, but in a personal way, I hope that you find someone to love who can love you back with an agape love. Paul describes what agape love is like in 1 Corrinthians 13.
The old fashioned wedding vows were an expression of agape love." I promise to love you and honor you all the days of your life; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health; in good times and bad; as long as we both shall live."
In other words: I promise to treat you as if you are the most wonderful person on earth; when I feel angry at you, when I feel as if I don't like you, when you are sick and I can't have sex with you - even if that's for the rest of my life; as well as when things feel great.
God's blessings to you, honey.
2007-11-23 16:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah i believe it can very much a way to find someone you love. cause then you can really get to know the person and everything about them. then when you finally do meet you will be that much ahead of the game and be that much more perfect for each other. so yes i agree very very much that it is a viable way to meet someone that could be your true love.
2007-11-23 01:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋