I guess the word would be "torn". unsure of what you should do? care or not care?
Like I don't even wanna make a decision....
2007-11-22 21:13:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Totally. I feel for you pal.
Unfortunately, for me, to choose not to decide is to still make a choice.....
2007-11-23 08:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Ninja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
[I guess the word would be "torn". unsure of what you should do? care or not care?
Like I don't even wanna make a decision....]
Everyone will get some time or other a situation of tearing himself, when the offence on him/her is so much that will disturb mental conditions too. A tare means big damage to heart.
We have to care the situation, and ensure that we come out of it ae early as possible to normalcy.
Later on to take care that we never land into such situation by our misdoings if any.
2007-11-24 01:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by kbk_murthi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then dont make the decision.
Let life lead you there,wherever that may be.
Sometimes you dont realize what you see because things are so clouded in your head.
Theres nothing wrong with needing time to yourself,time to reflect,time to think.Then sometimes you realize your answer was right there all along,but you just needed to clear your head.
care or not care?
having somewhat of a desire to not care makes me think in some way you were hurt.....?maybe idk.
its quite hard to try and interpret your question with such little to it.unless its just a general question.
but if its more deep,maybe i could help....?
or rather someone you know maybe.
sorry if i read this completely wrong,or if you dont need my help.i just like to give.
anyways.you shouldnt strive to make a decision your not ready for.Sometimes you want something so bad that you make it seem like it was something else,when it really wasnt,and thats when you become torn.
okay ill shut up.
sorry again.
2007-11-23 08:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Serene 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So I'm guessing you're having a bit of a rift with your lady-friend.
Let me tell you, I know what you're going through here.
I was once the cause of the problem in my relationship. I did stupid little things like that and finally after making it through 2 years I've realized how stupid I was to just flirt with whoever, and I've learned what it means to really, truly value someone and be faithful not only in body but in mind and soul. My man was always this steadfast and faithful, but I was still naive and had to learn my way to where I am now. I bet you know that feeling that he had, that stabbed in the back feeling. The feeling that you give and give and you're not getting back.
All you can do in this type of situation is just have faith in her. She tells you she cares about you, she tells you you're the only thing in her heart, believe her. Because I was in her position before and trust me, she feels horrible, she never meant to hurt you or betray you or make you get that horrible gut feeling that you have right now. Its hard to do, but just lean on her, and you'll get past this, and then be able to look back see that that was nothing. Whatever decision you have to make right now, you should of course go with what your heart feels, but just remember that you have a woman who, even though she messed up, is willing to share her life with you. Thats a pretty big thing to leave behind.
2007-11-23 10:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is hard when you don't know what to do. I wish I had the answers for you, but only you can know for sure what is in your heart and if you think it is worth caring about.
I wish I knew for sure what you were talking about because it would be easier to say something more direct.
Maybe, talk to someone you trust and get some input.
I am sorry you are feeling this way and hope things work out for you.
2007-11-22 22:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Alright 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Rob Yes to all the questions @ times. If you been like this long maybe you should talk to some one. Could be early stages of depression, or simply xmas blahs.
2007-11-23 02:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by hotvw1914cc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That describes my current mindset. It has just become so difficult to make any decisions. My legs and arms feel as if they are made of gum... can't move, can't do anything...
2007-11-23 13:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When I feel like that, I just let God take over. He will lead me in the right path!!<3
2007-11-22 21:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i have and it's really hard to cope with it, but I just let my heart talk to me and ask God for help. I get through in the end. :)
2007-11-23 23:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Perfectly Unperfect 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone feels like that from time to time...but things eventually seem to work themselves out. It'll be alright...you'll see!
2007-11-23 02:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋