i committed abortion when i was 9-10 weeks, i take cytotec, but there's nothing happen like spotting, after the following weeks, i did not continue taking up medicines..but i feel cramps...then we plan to continue my pregnancy,but i was so worried what will my baby looks...if theres an abnormalities?! l should i take vitamins?! i am now 4months pregnant... please give me some advice and positive ones... i always pray to god...
2007-11-22 19:27:14 · 10 answers · asked by h1y 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I will pray that you will have wisdom to take care of yourself, and for a healthy baby, and no complications for either of you.
†Prayer Warrior At Your Request†
2007-11-23 05:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by electroprayer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a brochure about a baby whose mother took Cytotec and then changed her mind about the abortion. Her baby girl was born perfectly healthy. I'll scan this brochure and email it to you as a PDF file. (If you have trouble opening it, just let me know and I'll figure out another way to send it.) It contains the mother's story and a beautiful photo of the baby! The mother had some of the same concerns as you, but as she says, "Seven months later, on December 23, 2004, my healthy, perfect baby girl, Kameryn was born...when I saw her and heard her cry for the first time, I cried so hard. She is a miracle. After everything she'd been through, she was so perfect."
Chances are your baby is just fine, too! Cytotec (misoprostol) usually works by cutting off the baby's nourishment, but in your case (thank God), your baby continued to receive enough nourishment and oxygen. Usually Cytotec is only used up to about 9 weeks, so perhaps your baby was old enough to resist the medication.
It may make you feel more at ease if you receive an ultrasound. Many crisis pregnancy centers can either give you one for free or arrange for you to receive one for free. You can find a crisis pregnancy center near you here:
http://www.optionline.org
or by calling 1-800-395-HELP
They will be able to give you good advice, counseling, and encouragement, and they can also help you with medical and financial assistance, free maternity and baby supplies, and anything else you might need.
Remember, none of us can change the past. All you can do now is take good care of yourself and your baby. It's always a good idea to take prenatal vitamins. Eat healthy food, get plenty of rest, and keep praying and thinking positively. Do everything you can to keep your baby safe now, and thank God for the great blessing you have received! If you are not sure of your relationship with God, visit
http://www.needgod.com
Take care.
2007-11-23 12:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking this now when you took it at 9-10 weeks and your now four months? even if there is a problem theres nothing you can do to change it (unless you were thinking of doing the unthinkable!)
i think that you should have thought it through better in the first place and either not taken the drug at all or taken the whole course and completed the action.
an ultrasound should have been done already to help check for any problems. you shouldnt be worrying about your babies appearence, you should be worried about any health problems this drug may cause your child.
you should have been to the doctors discussing this a long time ago but since you obviously havnt you should go RIGHT AWAY!!!!
2007-11-22 20:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good idea to talk to your doctor about this. I am glad you decided against abortion but I understand your concern. I will pray for you to find the information that you need and to make a wise decision. All life is from God. Take care.
† On-call Prayer Warrior †
2007-11-25 11:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by bethy4jesus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i can say is thank u, really it hurts me deeply to hear of a child thats been aborted, ive had a miscarriage and it just cuts deep into a persons soul, i hope that u come to find true love with ur baby, ur well on ur way. and if uve progressed fine, then ur baby is fine, if ur that worried, get one of those 4d ultrasounds, there so life like, but youll have to wait a little while longer
2007-11-22 19:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by momma4christopher 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should see a doctor without delay about this since you've already taken the cytotec. Yes, do see a doctor. Don't wait!
2007-11-22 19:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you and the baby are in my prayers.
It is of utmost importance for you to go to the doctor. NOW, tell them everything. You are the only food and substance that your baby gets. you must be healthy..
† Lonestar Prayer Warrior-ess <>< †
2007-11-23 16:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you pray to God then why are you looking for answers from man? You should have Faith that everything will be okay. He is in control.
2007-11-22 19:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you truely want the baby then you should love him/her unconditionally and it shouldn't matter what the looks are. continue taking prenatal vitamins and consult your doc for anything major like that. Good luck and congrats.
2007-11-22 19:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by yepyep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do that...its a mortal sin..just continue your pregnancy.... god will always guide you in everything you did...he's always be there in your side....don't lost your faith to him.....i'll pray for you and your coming baby....tc
2007-11-23 16:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by mygen_123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋