Ladies, especially....Would you be with someone who....?

Question

is not financially secure? and why?
Your future is at stake here...Come on, lets be realistic.

I don't wanna hear.." if you really love him/her, money is not important"...kind of answers!

The most realistic reason wins 10 points. :)

Answer 1

a partner that is financially responsible is more important to me that a one that is financially secure

Answer 2

It really depends on what stage im at in life - i wouldnt expect to meet a millionare, but my partner had a stable job, no savings though when we met (and neither did i) and we are now parents to our beautiful 4 month old son and looking to purchase a house in the very near future, so i guess we're getting financially secure together - i dont expect to be 'kept' we're both working (well my maternity leave is up soon so im going back shortly) so i guess financially security isnt a big issue for me - its more about them having the responsibility of wanting to get financially secure and having a stable job as well.
'Financially secure' is very subjective aswell - whats financially secure to one person may not be to another.

Answer 3

Have you over looked the "women are emotional first" rule?

Women will marry about the level of their education if they don't look good in a bathing suit. It is for that reason most women should get a education before looking for the "man of their dreams".

Most young girls, or ladies are not realistic, they are looking for the best they can find in the circle they run in most of the time.

Love is the first reason I would hear in my office, the second, He makes me feel good, like that's going to last I would say in the back of my head as I made notes.

It is just a simple fact, Women marry for emotional reasons most of the time.

If you get other facts or poll this I would love to see the answers.
johnny

Answer 4

Yes and no. I don't want my life to work out that way, but leaving someone I love would be extremely hard. I would try to help them out, and get them financially secure before getting into anything serious.


I guess I shouldn't have an answered a question about being realistic. I'm not exactly down to Earth.

I'm off to go ride a flying pig.

Answer 5

I want to be with someone who is self-supporting on a par with me. If I want a dependent, I'll have a kid.

If a woman feels the same way, fine.

What I don't like are the coy questions ("what kind of car do you drive?"). That's obviously an income evaluation question. It's also painfully obvious what the deal is when a rich Hot is dating or married to a poor Not.

Answer 6

If I would than that person would have to become financially stable to the point where he could at least afford a 1 bedroom apartment and pay utilities, and of course groceries and all of that other stuff for a normal home.

Answer 7

It depends. As a young lady, love conquered all; I'd sleep in a box on the side of the street with him. As a mature woman, I'll pass. I am a lady and require a wooden home that can withstand a high wind. I cherish my man and wish the best for you.

Answer 8

Honestly sweetie, you've got your whole life ahead of you. Don't settle for someone who can't give you the world. Don't let someone, especially a guy, ruin your future, and your life. Keep a close friendship with him, but think about it .. is it really worth risking your life, and future? Don't let others like that be the impact of a bad decission.. because at the point in time when you realized you've made a mistake, there will be no one to blame but yourself.

Answer 9

there is a lot more to life than money.....I have had it...and I've been without.....u can't equate money with love....there is no comparison. Finding true love is far more important than having a big bank account. If money interests a lady that much....she better only find a very wealthy man....might have money....but be short on love.

Answer 10

Financially security is important; but only a person who hasn't experienced true love could ask this question.