help...idk if it's ok or not. PLEASE I AM DESPARATE! thanks :)
ps i am 14 female
2007-11-22 15:28:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Wow, seems like everyone here agrees.
I don't think it's right or healthy.
I've heard people say, their sex lives with their spouse/lover can be less satisfying because they've become comfortable with the way they please themselves.
It actually stirs up sexual desires that at 14, you shouldn't have. (BTW I'm 16 and marriage is far off.) I mean you'll get them, but you shouldn't entice them.
Also, if it makes you feel guilty or that you have to hide it..then it obvious it's wrong. Don't get yourself addicted to something that will only hurt your conscious and your relationship with parents. You are in full control of what you do, don't let pleasure and other people's opinions over take what is moral. All in all this ties into a spiritual aspect. If you believe in God, it's not right. (for male or female) Look up why He says its wrong. It might give you a better reason not to. Even if you don't believe in Him, people can believe in things of the Bible. (For an example....pretty much everyone believes murder is wrong.)
Okay, so I hope you take my opinion into consideration and view this in a different perspective. :)
Besides, who wants to be like everyone else.
What is always popular isn't always right.
And what is right isn't always popular.
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2007-11-22 16:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Most women would think that female masturbation is a taboo. It is probably because masturbation is seen as something bad or sinful. As I can still remember in high school we were taught by a Jesuit teacher that masturbation is a sin if you are fully aware that is a sin. But then again, masturbation for men is a natural thing. So, how about when it comes to women? Well, women are starting to explore the world of masturbation but are somehow discreet about it. Sometime women will have the guilt feeling after doing "it" since it is not known for women do masturbate. But then there are studies shows that masturbation is actually good for women. I have read that it is good for your menstration, it actually helps you sleep and relax and some other health related benefits of masturbation. But then again, it all boils down to how you for see masturbation is. If you are open to such or not... (do I make sense?) hehehehehe
2007-11-22 15:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by angel_nxt_door 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definately ok. It is also healthy. . .don't worry about it, I believe that every female as well as male goes through masterbating/jacking off at some point or another. It's not abnormal, so dont think that it is. It's fine sweetie. Especially because it's better to masturbate than to get pregnant right? :)
2007-11-22 15:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Des 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine and healthy and normal. It is a good thing for you to learn what makes you orgasm... because when you are ( much ) older and having sex you will learn that penis into vagina usually is not enough for a woman to orgasm... One needs clitoral stimulation and if you don't know how to give it to yourself it will be hard time teaching someone else how to do it for you ( again, later in life )...
2007-11-22 15:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok! There is NOTHING wrong with masturbation. It's MUCH safer than having sex with another person. Masturbation can actually be very healthy and it can relieve stress.
2007-11-22 15:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's the only way to know what you like.
Just don't go having sex until you are older. Teen pregnancy is not cool. Nor are contracting the various diseases out there.
2007-11-22 15:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by dude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 15 and i've been masturbating for a year or two now. It's perfectly normal and isn't bad for you. IF you have any questions, you can always IM me at: Windscar92 or just email me. I"ll be happy to help you out! hope that helps!
2007-11-22 15:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is a GOOD thing! There is absolutely no reason not to do it, and the ability to pleasure yourself will keep you from becoming desperate to have sex with someone you don't really care about!
2007-11-22 16:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow Connection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a whole lot healthier and safer than having sex. Go for it, it's a perfectly natural thing to do, everyone does it and if they say they dont', they are most probably lying.
2007-11-22 15:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural and part of your human experience. You have to learn about yourself before you can be with someone else.
Good luck
2007-11-22 15:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋