i have started a new job and my boss gave me a raise the first week and told me not to tell anybody else.
i am happy about that but i don't understand how i got a raise my first week ??
and i always catch him staring at me and watching me sometimes on the job.
also, when i hand him something or give him a piece of paper his fingers always happen to brush mines everytime.
i really want this job but i don't want to get involved in any drama
does he have bad intentions
what do you think of this..????
2007-11-22 15:27:48 · 12 answers · asked by Mariana 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Other - Politics & Government
wrong category..but i need the opinions..
2007-11-22 15:28:07 · update #1
You've guessed it right.
The 'SOB' is on to you!
The raise on first week is unheard off!!
So, either quit or get into the game!
2007-11-22 15:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would watch out for him. The smartest thing would be to report it to someone now just so that in the future, if he does in fact make any unwanted approaches you will have a witness of sorts to back you up on it. The last thing you want to do is end up in some form of workplace sexual harrassment so make sure to put a stop to it early on.
2007-11-22 23:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take noted and keep a log of his actions. if he steps over the line you'll have evidence. If he asks you out and you say no you have something to help you if there is fall out. Only you can tell his intentions, But if you feel uncomfortable, quietly start the job search again before you end up feeling trapped or inconvenienced.
Good luck, too bad that some Richard craniums get in top positions, hope your wrong for your sake.
2007-11-22 23:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by NEOBillyfree 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You didn't say how large the company is, but if there is an HR department, you better talk to them, quick. Tell them what you told us. You want this stuff on file, so if anything funny happens later, they will know what's going on. And of course, you should be alert for any pressure to perform non-work duties..
2007-11-22 23:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup,the others are right...to protect yourself,make sure they have evidence that you were the first to report so that when the accusations start coming,you can say, i told you so.
Make sure the officer that handled your complaint is known to you,ie,his name and report number so that when you are fired or something,you can say i reported this to so and so and report number but nothing was done.Then,if there was a coverup,you can sue for unfair dismissal/sexual harrasement.He could ask for favors and when he ain't getting any,he won't be mr.nice guy anymore.He will try to get rid of you.You have done nothing wrong,so at least,protect yourself.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 01:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by gta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are a truly fantastic worker, he gave you that raise because he's got ulterior motives. Trust your instincts. They are seldom wrong.
2007-11-22 23:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd better start looking for another job. If you *think* somebody's interested in you, they probably are, and you don't want to be in the situation you're heading toward.
2007-11-22 23:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by trentrockport 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a muslim outfit and paint a red dot between your eyebrows, if that don't work grow a mustache...and stop boppin around your job site
2007-11-22 23:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by morgysan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say use this to your advantage for as long as you can but when things start getting weird you should do something about it. But for now its working to your advantage.
2007-11-22 23:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by Adeptus Astartes 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
He has not crossed the "line" with his motives yet, but he is flirting with it and you as well!!
2007-11-22 23:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋