well iv'e taken 3,and they all came out negitive,but i still have all they symptoms of being pregnant!! guys u have 2 understand...im 14 yrs old,my bf is 17,i can't let my parents find out cuz they will if i go 2 the doctor....just and help or advice???? and my bf is doing all he can in fact hes with me all the way...but i just need 2 know without my parents finding out
2007-11-22
14:36:13
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I Eat Broken Crayons
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Pregnancy & Parenting
➔ Pregnancy
o god i dont want to get fat..i guess this is why ppl say don't have sex now i feel like a pathetic slut
2007-11-22
14:45:36 ·
update #1
first of all, you are 14!!! what were you thinking? (thats my first reaction...sorry it doesn't help)
Anyway whatever happened, happened! its past...nothing you can't change about that..but one thing you first have to promise yourself to never ever go that way once you get out of the problem.
There is always solutions..well if you have to go to the doctors, your parents are gonna know...well,....parents..they are gonna be mad at you for a while or maybe forever (they deserve to) but they are your only once who could help you the most ...no matter what..you are their child, their blood, yeah they are gonna be mad...but there's no other way...
2007-11-22 14:43:31
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answered by Anonymous
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It's possible they are wrong, but highly unlikely if you've taken 3 and they're all wrong.
If you have any Planned Parenthood facilities or similar, nearby, have your boyfriend take you to one. The information is kept confidential. (( You can also get tested for STDs this way, too. ))
As a note, if you're not already using protection like a condom, NOT THE PULL AND PRAY method, start using one.
EDIT: oohyeah~
I forgot about taking them too early.
If you took them ALL too early, chances are they WILL be wrong.
2007-11-22 14:40:04
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answered by Anonymous
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if the pregnancy test comes out negative 3times then i assure you, your not pregnant.
the symptoms of pregnancy are you just being paranoid
if you've missed your period its coz you are only 14 and at this age your periods are still irregular
your breasts are growing coz you are going through puberty
these symptoms are occuring because your body is going through the rollarcoaster of puberty
the only symptoms are caused by your paranoia.
you and your doctor should have complete conventionality... your doctor can not tell your parents if you do not want him/her to.
2007-11-22 14:51:05
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answered by cassie 2
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What are your symptoms??
3 negative tests should give you the answer though...! but if you want to be sure, go to the doctor.
If your old enough to have sex than your old enough to tell your Mother if you are pregnant...!
2007-11-22 14:44:52
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answered by mspiggy 2
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Honey your parents will start knowing once your belly starts getting bigger i think it's bet you just tell your mom for now. Are you sure about the pregnancy symptoms cause when you take a test early it can come out negative. For to become pregnant you need to miss your next period and if you haven't got it yet you need to wait for that period if it's late you need to wait a week and then try taking a test.
2007-11-22 14:42:37
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answered by Adrianne R 5
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Honestly, if you are pregnant...THEY ARE GOING TO FIND OUT SOONER OR LATER...
It all depends on when you took the tests. Did you wait 5 days after your missed period??? If you didn't, you could have gotten 3 false negatives on the pregnancy test. There's still a chance you could be pregnant if you haven't waited that long.
2007-11-22 14:42:28
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answered by Violation Notice 6
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then just wait it out. if you have taken 3 and they ALL came out wrong..its pretty much impossible that they all came out negative and they were wrong. So settle down. Stressing out about it can make you miss a period in itself. Stress is the main reason a lot of woman miss their period. I understand..i was 15 when i started having sex and i freaked out EVERY month and i was ALWAYS late because my body was so stressed out. So wait it out a few weeks. I doubt...HIGHLY doubt that you are pregnant. Its awesome your boyfriend is sticking by you. I got pregnant at 18 and my boyfriend (now husband) stuck by me too so...thats awesome. I really dont think you are pregnant though. If you really dont want to get pregnant but want to have sex ( which i understand COMPLETELY. lol) then go to your local pregnancy resource center and ask where you can get free birth control. There is a family clinic here in my town where i got birth control at 16 and they were sworn to secrecy. They couldn't tell my parents anything. They do a pap smear (which doesn't hurt..i promise..its scary the first time but..its not bad) then they give you birth control. They give you condoms too. I recommend it if you dont want to get pregnant. really. and i swear they dont tell your parents ANYTHING. thats what they are there for. They are there to help fight against teen pregnancies. good luck..go to them if you want to make sure you aren't pregnant. they can tell you that too.
2007-11-22 14:43:38
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answered by Anonymous
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is your period late yet? if not then wait till it is and take another test. some people can get symptoms before they miss a period and before a test would be positive. so if you haven't missed it yet then just wait, but if you feel pregnant act like you are till you know for sure, no drinking or smoking ext.
2007-11-22 14:42:43
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answered by i_have_a_question 1
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Yes, they can be wrong. If you're taking them too early, they could be coming out negative, but if you take one later, it will come up positive.
If you are mature enough to have a boyfriend and have sex with him, you should be mature enough to be able to tell your parents this.
2007-11-22 14:42:11
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answered by That's not my name 7
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Go to a free clinic. We are not going to be able to tell you on here if you are pregnant or not.
2007-11-22 14:40:27
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answered by Anonymous
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