....with ugly or fat people themselves? Don't preach sugar coated lies cuz you wanna be nice. Live it or don't bother speaking. Do you agree?
2007-11-22 14:27:05 · 47 answers · asked by Coolkitty 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I didn't mean literally ALL beautiful people on earth of course. But I have certainly never met these people who date uglies and if there are you have to admit they are FAR more rare than the people I have mentioned.
2007-11-22 15:54:38 · update #1
Also as for the ones who ''actually believe it'' are they more likely to date ugly people? Not exactly. That's my point.
2007-11-22 15:55:51 · update #2
It's easy for people to give advice when they're not like that themselves because they don't have to deal with it.
2007-11-22 14:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Shell ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree.
I've only seen the beautiful with the ugly or fat when they were trying to get something.... Sad, isn't it? Now I am not a beautiful or even pretty or cute person, especially not when I'm skinny which has been proved by what changed with people's treatment of me when I became truly fat versus five pounds more than some would like..., so I know when I'm being approached by the pretty people, they don't really care for me, and I always find out I was right....
2007-11-22 14:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by dumbuglyweirdo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is not totally true. I have always been a good looking woman and I have only dated 1 pretty boy in my life and we married, it lasted 6 months. I don't date a man for what he looks like I date him for how he acts and treats me. My third husband looked like a bull dog and we were married for 23 years. The man I date now is not handsome by other women's standards but I really like him. He is so good to me, and I am good to him. I sound like I am conceited but I am not I know I don't look as good as when I was in my 20's or 30's and now I am almost 50 and I have never died my hair, although I am considering it since the grey is showing, I had my avatar photo taken in Sept of 2007 and I think I still look good for my age. I have never dated according to a mans looks. I do date in job categories as I want to have things in common and be able to talk on the same level.
2007-11-22 14:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do live it. But my standard of attractive is a bit different than other people's. Seriously. I have figured out that some people are great kissers, or have beautiful eyes and great hearts, but they didn't come in the most aesthetically pleasing package....but I know who I am attracted to, there really isn't a set criteria....
Seriously, I can show you pics of my ex's and then let you judge whether I live it or not, i have dated guys that come in all shapes and sizes and walks of life. And I firmly believe it is less about what what someone looks like than it is about the content of their heart,
2007-11-22 14:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Ninja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is important to some people. I'm one of them. On the other hand, I could never be married to Pam Anderson; she's a ditz. Nor could I ever wind up with a Britney Spears wack job. Sure, they are beautiful... but with empty heads. See what I'm getting at? So for me... intellect has to follow attraction. If intellect is scarce, they go from a 10 to a 1 in my book pretty quickly.
2007-11-22 14:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by writersblock73 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no i dont believe so...
beauty really is only skin deep and it's not because you are trying to be nice.
when u get old do you think your partner should care about how you have aged. a relationship that has based itself on looks would never last and it is idiotic to think that beauty is the only thing out there.
but if your saying that beautiful people who tell "ugly" people that beauty is only skin deep are all lying then you might be surprised on how some actually do believe it.
2007-11-22 14:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by nonbiased 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I never noticed that before. But it is the inside that counts. We're all the same ugly underneath our skin. I'm an average looking girl, (everyone tells me I'm cute, which inmho is a nice way of saying average.) I hope that I can find someone who's a little less better looking then me. They are just more faithful.
2007-11-22 14:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Laughing all the way 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they have known someone that was beautiful on the outside yet ugly on the inside. I mean it works both ways...right? I have known a few like that. They were incredibly hot on the outside yet once they open their mouths and showed you the "real" them they turned ugly.
2007-11-22 14:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah they can only say that because they know they'll end up w/ beautiful like them. Have you ever scene a cute girl w/ an ugly guy.
2007-11-22 14:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by benjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're coming across a little agro...
People who are beautiful inside and out are going to attract the same type of people. Agro people are going to attract other agro people.
Good luck
2007-11-22 14:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so wrong!
My sister is drop-dead gorgeous and she only dates 'fat', 'unattractive','unlikely to date a hottie' men because they treat her better.
BTW, my ex-husband isn't attractive in the conventional sense, and neither is my current.
I know lots of 'mismatched' couples.
It goes to show that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2007-11-22 14:57:22 · answer #11 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋