any signs?
2007-11-22 12:45:45 · 11 answers · asked by blue_Billy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
emotional
verbal
sexual
2007-11-22 12:58:48 · update #1
out of all of the three you mention and from personal experience. mental abuse is the worst because the scars although not visible , lay dormant ready to resurface at any time, it makes someone bitter ,after a long awaited soul searching journey , i am at long last moving on , looking ahead and maybe along the way i will find the happiness that i long for x
2007-11-22 13:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥BEX♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A abusive person usually start by con tolling the person Exp ... They will call you 10 times a day on the pretax they care for you Second steps ''they pushed away your family and friends saying things like '' they are not good to you I love you so I want to protect you third ;;They can say I don't like your dress it makes you like a slot ;;First word of verbal abuse but its not the last it will just keep getting worse The victim cries and he console her so she come to believe he is the good guy its true he want the best for her usually the next step is physical He will push her against the wall and now he cries hes so sorry it will never happen again She believe him again After all hes so nice hes buying her gifts also Flowers every week and the list goes on
2007-11-22 21:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by lala 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are very deceptive. They can commit great harm, and five minutes later no one, other than the abused person, would ever guess abuse was committed.
The only way an abusive person changes is when they are in a crematorium incinerator.
2007-11-22 22:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Zheia 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have done domestic violence training in my employment as we have to deal with people in their own homes. Bullies and abusers tend to be charming in public, but cruel and manipulative in private. Such people tend to be insecure, jealous, posessive, controlling and certain people fear them - the latter is a strong indicator. Someone said as one of your answers, that abusers apologise to gain your trust then abuse again. This is part of the cycle of abuse - here is a cut and past from one of the links: In addition to this, abusers like to isolate people; move them away from family, cause the victim to lose friends and even when alone in a room together, events take place to make them dependent on the abuser. People often don't leave or complain because the abuser is often nice, and it is these nice parts people stay for. This causes confusion, people to doubt themselves and lower their self esteem futher. This is all based on one thing = POWER.
Incident: Any type of abuse occurs (physical/sexual/emotional/neglect/financial/drug/alcohol abuse)
Making up:
Abuser may apologize for abuse
Abuser may promise it will never happen again
Abuser may blame the victim for causing the abuse
Abuser may deny abuse took place or say it was not as bad as the victim claims
Calm
Abuser acts like the abuse never happened
Physical abuse may not be taking place
Promises made during 'making-up' may be met
Victim may hope that the abuse is over
Abuser may give gifts to victim
Tension building
Abuser starts to get angry
Abuse may begin
There is a breakdown of communication
Victim feels the need to keep the abuser calm
Tension becomes too much
Victim feels like she/he is "walking on egg shells"
2007-11-23 06:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what type of abuse that the person is inflicting.
Mental, Verbal, Sexual or Physical they all have different traits that manifest in Different ways. You need to be more clear on what type of abuse they use.
2007-11-22 20:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Agent Zero® 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abuse is not always from a monster. Its not always intentional. It can be the way someone is wired not matching the way you are wired.
Its easy enough to spot, are things happening to you that you really don't want to happen, that are caused by that person and beyond your control?
2007-11-22 22:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ernie77 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
gains your trust to manipulate and bully
pretends to be sorry to gain your trust, manipulate and bully
etc
they can keep it going for ages in a victim stance because it is attritional
they play on the generous forgiving qualities of target person whilst attacking the conviction of same target person
2007-11-22 21:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On Yahoo answers, they are cowards. You cannot see them, or look them in the eye, so they think they have the right to be abusive. JUST COWARDS!!!
2007-11-22 21:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by 'Er indoors!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of abuse to be asking this question....you would have to be specific.
2007-11-22 20:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Eruvadhron "LOE" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arogance,to much selfasteam.
2007-11-23 04:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by brich_inc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋