im 19 and still am flatt chested enough to not have to wear a bra?

Question

any advice on how i get the other girls to leave me alone about it?

Answer 1

How to get the other girls to shut up? Only suggestion would be to be more confident about yourself so the comments they make let you you realise that they are are more an indication of their little maturity and intelligence than anything little about you!

Anyway, big boobs arn't the be all and end all. Personally I find a full chest a turn off! Its all down to personal taste, and personality is more important anyway!

(Big boobs, like a couple of saddle bags when they lie down, and can't be comfortable.! Be happy with what youve got I'm sure you look super!)

Answer 2

Tell them about a friend you met on the net. That would be me.

My wife is large busted; as in 44DD. She will be 59 years old very soon. Here back bothers her constantly because of the weight she has hanging on her chest. She has been uncomfortable since right after our first child was born.

All you need do is point out their future to them then go merrily about your business...

You may feel cheated at the moment but trust me, you have received a tremendous blessing. And, any guy that can't understand that is too immature for you.

Answer 3

I worried too Tara when I was your age, but I'm a lot older now! Try not to rise to the bait when the other obviously immature girls have a go at you. Some of us were never meant to have big chests, but we have to try and make the most of whatever nature has given us. Marks & Spencer sell some lovely bras for much smaller ladies like ourselves.

Answer 4

Obviously they're jealous that they have to wear a constricting bra. I have to wear a bra and sometimes clothes look bad because I need a certain bra to wear it with. You're lucky, dont let girls makes you feel bad about it and if they're your friends they shouldn't hurt you. Be proud of your flat chest and flaunt the fact that certain clothes look better on you :)

Answer 5

don't mind them. love yourself & accept the flaws. it will surely show much beauty than the boob thing. padded bras are good. just be sure to wear them with confidence. and just the right size pls.... ;-) use empire waist tops/dresses & those with large prints (like flowers) to look like your heavy chested. stay away from loose tops because it will really show your flat chested. you can also use dangling or drop earrings to put their focus away from you chest. or a long necklace will help too. but above all these, loving yourself & having that self-confidence is much important.ok? go girl!God bless! (",)

Answer 6

I can't believe someone who is 19 years old would still be immature enough to make fun of someone for being flatchested. I don't know what you can do to make them stop. But you can at least console yourself with the knowledge that you are far more mature and intelligent than they will ever be. Take the moral highground!

Answer 7

Well, I can beilieve 19 year olds would be so wrapped up in it. Most people in that age range are highly immature. Don't let it bother you. Just catch back up with them 10 years down the line and see if their boobs are the only parts that are bigger then.

Answer 8

Well, the chances are you are always going to cop some slack, unfortunately. There are so many advantages to being flat chested - maybe point them out? The advantages include the ability to play sport, the likelihood of not ever having sagging breasts, etc

All healthy body types are beautiful - it just takes beautiful people to appreciate them. :)

Answer 9

Well, at age 19, I should think that other girls would have their minds on other things than your chest. Hang out with a different crowd. That's just weird.

Most high fashion models are flat chested. Maybe you can make that angle work for you.

Answer 10

Tell them that it doesn't bother you and that you would rather be flat chested than to have to worry about bra straps being uncomfortable or men being interested in you only because of your chest!! You can also tell them that some men would rather see a flat chested female rather than one with a chest hanging down to their waist band, which includes me, incidentally. I would be more interested in a flat chested female who accepted herself as she is rather than someone who spends thousands to put silicone in their body to raise their self esteem, or someone who has to worry about all that extra weight hanging down to their waist - I know someone like that and to me it was more gross than sexual!!
With a flat chest, you will probably have a better chance of finding a man who will love you for yourself rather than for your body so don't let that bother you.