Friendship Advice Needed Asap?

Question

Sorry, it's kinda long. But I'd really really appreciate it if anyone would read the whole thing and advice me. Just read it here aka click the link:-

http://endlessxscars.livejournal.com/

Highlight the journal page with your mouse if you can't read it.

And, if you say end the friendship, how do I end it? Like what should I say? How should I say it?

I'm really confused. Am I naive and too nice to others?

I text her for the last time today to see if she'll respond the next day. Apparently, I text her this:-

"listen i don't know why you won't reply my msg. but that's fine. i am not going to wait around forever. we are still friends but until you can come to me as a real friend and tell me what is the matter, then I will just leave you be. but just know that our friendship will forever change if we don't settle this problem between us"

I thank baby_sunshine_4eva for the answer given in another asked question. I tweaked it a little to fit my situation.

So what do you guys think? Is that message okay? And all I have to do now is wait?

Answer 1

Don't think she was really a friend.

Answer 2

End of friendship, I cant believe she did that u should not have a friend who makes u cry and blames u. Go on with your life and hang with your other friends. If she tries to call or text u do not respond the only thing u should tell her is this friendships done!!!!!!

Answer 3

I would say to drop her as a friend or at least until she can grow up enough to appoligies to you for blaming you for something you had no control over. She's the one that's loosing out, not you. Sounds to me like she is a little self centered to me. don't worry. You did the right thing. Just let it go if she wants to be pigheaded about it.

Answer 4

Speeches sometimes don't help?! you especially ask someone close you and your friend mediate a resolve to problem? as always ask around you for help parents have a wisdom you wouldn't believe at all...