why did he play me?. i dont understand how this could have happened :( i delt with the situation perfectly and he just blows me off. my dads friends son who is this guy i work with and i have been flirting for the past 3 months. he would always give me hugs all the time, and one time after work he asked me if i had a boyfriend and what do i look for in a guy. he also told me that he has been single for a year because in his past relationship his girl cheated on him. anyways i know for a fact that he was interested in me and i fell for him hard. so one day we were talking on msn and i asked him when he wants to chill cuz he would always say i should come visit him sometime and he said "i have to see when im available" i was like okay. also before i asked him if he was talking to anyonemeaning if he is dating anyone and he said no. then 2 weeks later we have this conversation on msn:
2007-11-22 04:13:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
me-wat u doing friday
him- im going shopping in new york
me- thats too bad i was gonna tell u im free fri
him- lol so how are the boys treating u? have you found that special one yet
me- no have u?
him- ye im kind of talking to someone right now
me- really who
him- lol u wouldnot know her
me- I don’t understand u
him- I mean u don’t know her so if I tell u her name it is pointless
me- noo not that, nvm
him- what then tell me
me- lol u play games
him- I don’t play games. I didn’t lead u on, cuz if I did I would have kissed you up and stuff but I didn’t. we didn’t talk on the phone everyday, we didn’t even chill outside of work. I didn’t lead u on, sure we flirted here and there but it was all verbal, nothing physical.
Me- ok true but u did other things to make me think otherwise
Him- all I did was give u hugs and asked you questions to get to know u…
Then he goes offline.
okay so my question is does he know that i obviously like him???? and why did he push me away?
2007-11-22 04:13:58 · update #1
YOU led HIM on.
Guys always flirt with girls. Unless they hate them, or are somehow related.
You led him on by telling him you were "free" friday. Thats like saying "askmeout askmeout askmeout askmeout..." to a guy.
2007-11-22 04:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay... here it goes.... boys have this strange mind that doesn't work quite like ours... not saying were diffrent, boys and girls but... i have the same problem, he's lovely but one week its me then his ex then someone else then back to me again and i get fed up. my best friend fancies him so i can't tell her the situation cos i promised her. DAMN GUYS!!!! anyway lol look make a list of things you like about him then make a list of things you don't... weigh up the pro's and con's. he clearly was looking at you for fun but found that you didn't want to rush so tried to find some girl he could play around with and get into bed quicker.... he's a player and can't handle settling down yet. he's not worth it unless you just want casual flirting ect. don't worry xxx hope it helps a bit honest don't worry there are better men out there!!!
2007-11-22 12:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by loopypony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you're hurt, but I don't think he meant to lead you on - that is, I don't think he meant to be cruel. I think he just didn't realize that you were developing strong feelings for him, he interpreted it all as friendship, or there was a little attraction there but he met another girl. If you like talking to him still, and it doesn't continue to make you feel bad, then I'd say go ahead and talk. If it makes you sad, best to avoid him, at least for a while. My best to you and hope you feel better soon.
2007-11-22 12:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by LoFlo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a Jerk!!!
He blatantly lead you on and knew that you liked him! he probably had this other and you and had to choose between the two of you.
If I were you I would not give him the time of day, but I can reaasure when that girl plays up he will try it again.
2007-11-22 12:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cheeky Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
• yes he has figured out that you like him
• he pushed you away because he is not interested
i think he probably did kind of like you but he liked someone else better, and he was stringing you along as a backup plan. just a guess, but that's what it sounds like. i think you should get over him and find someone who won't treat you that way!
2007-11-22 12:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by sir_mix_occasionally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He knows you like him. He doesnt care. He likes somebody else. So, you drop Him likes He's hot, and get on with your life. He isnt worthy of you. As my grandma used to say ,"Piss on 'em"
2007-11-22 12:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg hes a dick.
move on girl.
i know its hard but you surely deserve better.
2007-11-22 12:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were more into him.
If he was really into you he
would have asked you out.
But he didn't, so move on.
2007-11-22 12:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is stupid he lead you on talk to someone else
2007-11-22 12:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by roses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋