Silly question, perhaps, but I find that I don't laugh unless I'm very close to people. I don't know how to joke (tell me?!?). I don't know kind of conversation to have with people that I meet. I don't know how to socialise!
2007-11-22 03:45:06 · 12 answers · asked by Karl 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My guess is that you are very involved with your work and you don't get much time to get out. I know a lot of people like that, namely doctors. I would suggest you watch some funny movies, or find something of interest that does not involve work. I find that when you truly enjoy something, like snorkeling, sky diving, skiing, the words just flow and you will have incredibly funny things to talk about because you are having fun. Enjoy yourself. If that does not work, just ask someone questions about something they enjoy doing. I guarantee they will talk your ear off.
2007-11-22 03:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Beth V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to know how to joke to laugh
You just need a good sense of humor, in a way that you can see the humor in a joke, and not get offended by any, or take something too literal or serious.
I think what you need is people who are willing to be your friend. Someone who understands that you're not good at that, so they could be the one who initiates a conversation.
Me myself, I'm not good at socializing either, and I actually like making friends with people who are not good at socializing too. Those people who sits way up at the social ritcher scale would probably finds me boring anyway.
2007-11-22 11:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a Christian, it will make you smile for the rest of your life, becaues you know that God is there with you all the time and cuz u know ull go to heaven and stuff. Im like a person who jokes around all the time. My teacher never believes me when ever i say something cuz i joke too much. I just try to think of funny stuff and i say it i guess...
2007-11-22 11:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by МɨҞҾ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no hard and fast rule regarding socializing and it's almost impossible to teach someone.
My only suggestion is to watch other people while they socialize and try to learn from them
2007-11-22 11:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to a certian extent, your socialising now. So your proving that you can. Just go and do it with people you know now.
2007-11-22 11:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Rooz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well what i do is.. if someone tells me a joke and i dont understand i laugh anyways... it makes the other person feel good.. and i dont look like a slow person....
so try that
in doubt laugh it out!
2007-11-22 11:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to a therapist. Good luck.
2007-11-22 11:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Fly girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me too. I just assume that for me if I am happier I will laugh more.
2007-11-22 11:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by LEMON the good life 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like this: ha ha ha ha , thats the basic it's up to you to make it your own.
2007-11-22 11:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by rogue_roque 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
were you raised by a pack of wolves.
2007-11-22 11:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋