my friend have this boy that she love so badly one day they have with the boy sex and she get prengnancy and went he tell the boy that she is pregnancy the boy said that he is not the one what du you think my friend would du please help my friend
2007-11-21 23:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You could wait until the baby is born & have a parenting test.
I think the guy is just being irresponsible. Not willing to fess up to the responsibility.
He helped create that baby, and it's his. If he had sex with her, he can't be certain he isn't the dad. She can be wondering if there could possibly be another dad if she'd been with more then 1 guy.
I think it's rude, he is basically calling her a 5lut. He thinks she sleeps around, and if she truely loves him so badly, that's sad, because obviously he doesn't love her back.
It's going to be a long & difficult road for her, Good luck!
2007-11-21 23:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
paternity test. If she requests one it has to be done. I am not sure what state you live in but make sure you list him as the father on the paper for birth certificate they give to you in hospital. Very important . Stay away from him and have a somewhat stress free pregnancy. He already said he is not the one. Tell him to grow up and stay away from your friend. It sounds like he is young and your friend also. She does not need the stress during her pregnancy
2007-11-22 07:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by tweety10157 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on the Maury Povich, Jerry Springer or Dr. Phil show and make him take a paternity test!
2007-11-22 07:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your friend doesn't sound very mature, nor does the boy. I think she should explore other options ... but I realise it is her choice. And her life. I wish her well whatever she decides to do.
2007-11-22 07:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its his,,she can get him to pay child support,,,when baby born ,,get a d.n.a test to see that he is the father,,but if he wont stay around,,,she has to move on in life,,,make the best that she can do,,,,,sounds like the man is a looser anyway,,
2007-11-22 07:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she "pregnancy"? :-)
Don't force someone if they don't love you. Go on with your life.
2007-11-22 07:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mikeke 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
serves her right.
2007-11-22 07:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋