If gay people did not choose to be gay and they were born that way! Why God would send them to hell?

Question

I believe in God and I am Gay ! Personally , I reject myself but again I didnt choose to be gay ! I just don't understand why God would send somebody who didn't choose to be gay to hell. I am rally confused!

Answer 1

god doesn't make junk and he doesn't make ugly is what i was always taught. and since i am hand crafted by god, i can't be too bad. i believe that god created us all, in detail, from the tiniest hair on yuor head to the biggest callus on yuor feet. and if he wanted anything different, then he would have made it so. i don't believe that god wants to send me to hell for being who he made me. people might get offended that i say that. but that's my belief. and i am entitled to that. i didn;t choose to be shunned by my family. i didn't choose to ge called names every time i step outside. do you think i like getting called names and made fun of when i ride the bus, no exactly. so i dont see how anyone would choose to be gay. we are becasue we are and we are here to teach people. and again, i mean no offense to anyone, but if god is the kind of person to creat someone and then destroy it...do i really wanan believe in someone that does that. it's like being best friends with someone you know will eventually kill you. and truthfully, when it comes time for me to leave this earth, when i get to the gates, if god were to say i was wrong after all, then all i can say to him/her is that i guess i've wasted my time.
be who you are. love yuorself. at the end of the day, right or wrong ,we can only be held accountable for ouselves. it's you life, given to you by god, live it

Answer 2

Did anybody tell you where hell is? Is anyone went there and came to explain the scenario of that place?
Did anyone tell you that there are gays in hell?

If you were born as a gay, why are you asking and blaming for yourself on it?

Be proud you are that kind of a person! You have the roles to play on while on Earth. Never mind what the nature reacts on you. Make the most of your sexual preferences! Don't fret the status quo of being such!

Who knows exactly the price of being a gay?

Answer 3

My friend , you seem to be torturing yourself.
It`s good to believe in something. You were probably brought up in a God fearing household?

Don`t reject yourself, or hate yourself.
You cannot choose your sexual preference.
You are born with it.

I`m straight but have lots of gay friends and I accept everyone of them.
As long as you lead a good wholesome life and you are accepted by the people around, what does it matter.
You aren`t going to Hell.

You should not focus on Religion.

I know you feel tormented and it is hard to think you are doing wrong, which your not.
Don`t spoil your life worrying.
Live for today.

There are enough very BAD people in this world, but your`re not one of them love.

(We all do things from time to time that we think we will be punished for in a later life, nobody is perfect)

I hope you find peace soon.

Answer 4

Well, I was once undoubtedly born homosexual and for my part, so is each different homosexual man or woman. It is not viable to "beat the homosexual" out of anybody. Those persons are in poor health for sending their youngsters to these camps. They will have to be despatched to jail. You're correct, nobody chooses to be homosexual and if persons had any feel, they might discover that. Nobody chooses to be directly. I suppose it's unhappy that such a lot of religions have come to suppose that the Bible thinks homosexuality is flawed. That is a misinterpretation. I suppose God created me this fashion, and I is not going to permit any faith inform me otherwise.

Answer 5

God doesn't send u to hell for being gay, he sends u to hell for committing sin.

Just like an alcoholic who drinks alcohol to excess is ignoring their spiritual development (which for christianity is the key component of a relationship with their god) so a person who commits homosexual acts is ignoring their spiritual development, and sinning.

So u can be gay, but just like a heterosexual person, you should abstain from sex that is not 'authorised' by god.

Answer 6

I don't need to tell you that being gay isn't a choice, we are born like it. As long as you have an open heart and show 'christian' values during your life, I don't think you'll have too much problem getting into heaven. But for god's sake, enjoy your sexuality, it is, after all, a gift from god.

Answer 7

i've said it a million times over the years. people r not born gay. i do not know why gays always say, "i was born gay". in God's eyes, being gay is wrong. it's called abomination. in the old testament, cities were destroyed b/c almost everybody in those cities was gay & it went against the law of the land which was made by God. being gay is a choice b/c u also have people who choose 2 b straight or whatever else. being gay is defiling the body which is the home for the Holy Spirit. also Jesus died 4 your sins, so your body is really not yours 2 abuse in that way. just read the book of genesis.

Answer 8

God made man, right and as men have g-spots, we can only deduce 2 things:

1) God made the g-spots deliberately – which means he is all OK for homosexuality
2) God isn’t all knowing / all loving – why make men love men and say you can’t be gay?

So either god wants gays or there is no God ….

Also what God (who is loves his creation) burns them – doesn’t that sound medieval – as a way of getting people to do what the church wants. People ask why and the church said “god said …”

Why doesn’t god come down and tell us?

And lastly, don’t listen to the phrases like “god is testing you” – I thought god is all knowing?!?

Answer 9

Get to a therapist. Get some education. And get over Leviticus, already...there are so many other things in the Bible than a few little comments. If your mother ever wore a red dress, she's going to hell, too, if you keep this sort of thinking up. Actually, she would be stoned to death FIRST, I guess.

But as you say, you reject yourself. Work on that first, and then maybe you can reconcile yourself with ill-informed religious dogma.

Good luck!

Answer 10

well, considering that in the beginning, incest was acceptable to god for the reproduction and survival of mankind... but, now that the world is a little too overpopulated, you can have the girl next door instead of your whiny little sister, beside the fact that incestuous relations produce abnormal offspring, gayness is a good way to control the population.... its all about intelligent design i guess... just have fun in this life cuz once your dead, hell and heaven might turn out to be one big eternal bore-fest...