I found out that my friend had an abortion and I just got so sick to my stomach.
2007-11-21 20:17:21 · 20 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes, I would
its not up to me to judge others
a friend is a friend - offer her support, understanding & help as you may not know the full picture
2007-11-21 20:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Do you know why? Maybe it was the best thing to do. Would you hang out with your friend if she was a lesbian and always hitting on you? Would you hang out with your friend if she were blind or deaf? Would you hang out with your friend if she were pregnant? Would you still hang out with your friend if she had 4 kids? Why wouldn't you hang out with her? Maybe you need to talk to her and see why she had the abortion and then be nothing but a friend to her...if you can't see your true friendship beyond the abortion then she doesn't need you!!!!
2007-11-22 04:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by ~p♥kes~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure but if i feel my friend needs me and will try to explain the reason why, i'll be a listening friend and stay with her. It's not me who will carry the burden of her actions but perhaps i could give her some advise regarding the consequences of resorting to abortion.
2007-11-22 04:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by brainwhacker 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a pro-lifer all my friends know that, in saying that however I have had 3 friends who at some point in their lives could not see a way through..... I have stuck by all 3, they had their reasons and to see their misery in trying to make a decision is far worse than judging them for making the ultimate decision which is right for them.
Their are friends and their are acquaintances - which one are you??
2007-11-22 04:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by ashar/97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. Because even though it's not something I agree with it is still legal and her choice. I really have no say in anything that has to do with her life. I'm in no position to judge. More than likely making that decision was difficult for her and she'll need someone by her side.
2007-11-22 04:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mekana 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, why not! You hung out with them before, so why not now? They are still the same person, they just happened to make a life altering decision at a vulnerable time in their life!
2007-11-22 16:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by stacielb06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're a true friend, it shouldn't matter. it was her choice, not yours and you don't know her reasons for the abortion. i know a few of my friends have had abortions and it doesn't change how i feel about them.
2007-11-22 17:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by GothicLady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have, it was her decision and i respected her for that(because i knew the circumstances surrounding it too) and we are still friends today(it was a long time ago), i personally dont believe in it, but i certainly dont judge others for it, there is a reason for everything. :)
2007-11-22 04:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree 100% with Anthony Spears.
we are no one to judge the sinner.
they might have their own reason for doing the abortion.
2007-11-22 04:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Heaven Hill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you were a true friend you would too. Do you know her situation? Instead of turning your back on er, you should be offering her support.
2007-11-22 04:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by devine_secrets34 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋