I am the ONLY child so when I was at HOME I got what I wanted and NOW I moved in with my BF and I don't get what I want always and its MAKING me mad........HE won't listen to everything..like buy ME stuff I want....
so what should I do...or TELL him..
2007-11-21 19:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by MILAN :) 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am 20 hes 27
2007-11-21 19:07:43 · update #1
How is that greedy?
2007-11-21 19:12:21 · update #2
I can understand where you're coming from having been an only child, but having moved away from your parents the dynamic has changed... to your dismay presently. I personally would have discouraged you from moving in with your boyfriend, but it's reality now. Another reaity friend is that you're grown and it's a thing of "fending for yourself"... yes even when you have a significant other in your life. Your getting a dose of adult life and adult life realities. You should tell him how you feel, but do please arm yourself with the reality that he's not going to hold you up on a pesdestal as your parents. So now you've got to face it, try to deal with it, and then try to do some things for yourself. Aside from these things aforementioned, he cannot buy you all the things you want... it's not realistic and it's difficult. So just keep pushing, share your heart, and arm yourself with some other things potentially going down... and be your own best friend. Good luck and Happy Thanksgiving!
2007-11-21 19:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the good news is that you recognize the biggest problem - YOU are used to getting what YOU want.
You should be telling your bf this, not us. Then maybe the two of you can compromise and be more patient with each other.
2007-11-22 03:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by nytebreid 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be to high maintenance. However he should listen to your concerns and also he should buy you some gifts every now and then. If he's a true boyfriend he would understand everything you have to tell him.
2007-11-22 03:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the brat needs a spanky hehe.
2007-11-22 03:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you want something, you should get a job. Things won't always be handed to you. You have to work for them.
2007-11-22 03:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Christi 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
greedy much?
2007-11-22 03:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Will 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋