I saw some of my boyfriends questions on Yahoo, talking about girls, dating other girls. We have been together for 2 years.
How would you feel, if you saw your girlfriend or boyfriend asking questions like that?
I do not want to feel insecure, I am not that kind of person, but I really feel hurt right now, How would you feel about it?
2007-11-21 17:57:45 · 14 answers · asked by Hales 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'd probably be devastated...but I'd confront him/her and find out what the deal really is...anyone can post anything here regardless of its truthfulness or reality....I'm sure guys often get on here and talk about girls, brag about dating other girls, and do the same lying and fantasizing that they do in person when guys get together.
So, yeah, I don't blame you for being hurt, but maybe give him a small benefit of the doubt until you hear his side of the story....and if he can't come clean about it, then he doesn't deserve to be your boyfriend....good luck, I hope it all works out for you.
2007-11-21 18:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Yinzer Power 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if this happened to me I'd make absolutely sure it's not a case of mistaken identity (there are *so* many ppl here & some may have similar IDs or avitars) & then take the advice of the person who suggests you answer one of his questions.
When I've been in similar situations (not with my current SO), yes I was hurt & angry. Hopefully, the person asking those questions isn't your bf or has some innocent reason for asking them. Good luck.
2007-11-22 02:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Catkin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to feel hurt, I know I would too. I hope he is not cheating on you. No one deserves that. Or Your boyfriend is playing games and being very disrespectful to you. Confront him and tell him you know. He has got some explaining to do.
2007-11-22 03:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel the exact same way! Wow. If it really troubles you, go and talk with him about it. Ask him if there's anything that he's been wanting to tell you. Just go ahead and do it because you'll only be able to get your thoughts and feelings sorted out that way.
2007-11-22 02:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by The Girl In Black [panic!] 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all be sure that its him and you are sure of his ID secondly there is no reason to doubt him even if he is asking questions about girls or dating others this could be that he is trying to learn from others experiences and try to do those things which he may learn with you only .......or maybe you have trusted a person wrong for too long..... thats how i would feel
2007-11-22 02:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by BigDK 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well i would ask myself, What did he write? Do you remember a line or 2 of what he said? was it something personal? if it was you might be getting cheated on or used.Take care of your boyfriend and yourself.
2007-11-22 02:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you should probably talk to him
and ask him why he has those questions
if you two have been together for that long
he shouldnt be so insecure
its not you, its him
so i guess all you can do is talk to him..
next time he posts a question...you should reply with something...like...talk to me! or something..
2007-11-22 02:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would feel the same way
I don't blame you.
I think its best to ask him about how hes feeling face to face.
2007-11-22 02:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Chilax! You should have known by being in his network what you were getting into. Talk to him and tell him you are hurt. Just go from there...cheer up today is Thanksgiving.
2007-11-22 02:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I would confront him about it and ask what the hell is going on. I would be pissed if my husband did that. He would be sleeping on the couch for awhile
2007-11-22 02:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋