i'm 100% straight (i'm very very girly) but i'm in a girl to girl relationship? what am i exactly?? :-? we're both straight. she made a promise that she wouldn't become a tomboy AGAIN.. do you think she is? because i think she is (she acts and dresses like a guy.. most of the time...) but that means she broke our promise right? :(
anyway...
pls give an advice on this.. :)
my girlfriend's mom found out about us.. her mom was soooo strict... she grounded her. no tv, cellphone, phone and computer.. we don't go to the same school anymore so how will i be able to communicate with her? and should i tell my parents? cause my mom knows about me and her but she tought we already broke up.. i hate lying to my parents. it hurts me a lot. and soon (this january) i'll go to a different country, should i break up with her so she wouldn't have a hard time? i heard long distance relationships don't last...
it's sooo complicated right? just tell me what i should do.. i don't care if i get hurt. tnx!
2007-11-21 16:52:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
btw, i'm attracted to guys! :P
not girls.. so i don't know what i am.. hehe :)
2007-11-21 16:53:29 · update #1
i'm just 14! hehe.. i really need some advice.. not criticism.. :)
2007-11-21 17:00:48 · update #2
and lastly, she's my first love! hehe.. :)
it's almost been 1 yr :)
and i just hope she's the one! =)))))
2007-11-21 17:06:41 · update #3
and lastly, she's my first love! hehe.. :)
it's almost been 1 yr :)
and i just hope she's the one! =)))))
2007-11-21 17:06:45 · update #4
well. um do you make out with her? then i think you maybe bisexual.
umm how long is she grounded for? If its a real long time, wait outside her house or something, it shouldnt be allowed that her parents did that, bt life is unfair!
However, why wouldnt you like her to act how she is? you should be happy for her anyway!
Tell your parents if you think you 2 will be together for a long time! even though a year has been good! But would they like you for whom you see in this girl?
dont break up with her unless you dont feel anything, that would make her feel worse seeings shes grounded!
2007-11-22 05:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweetie...her this goes. Are you sure that you are 100% straight. If you are attracted to both gurls and guys in a romantic way, you are bisexual (as I am). I think that if you do not like her in a romantic way then you should break off the relationship. (btw, if you are IN a relationship with a gurl, there is no way that you are straight) And if you are going to a different country then there are defintely a few things that you and your girlfriend need to think about.
1) Will you be able to keep in touch?
2) Will the relationship last without seeing each other frequently?
3) Will one of you end up cheating on the other?
I suggest you and your girlfriend analyze these questions, if at all possible, and decide what should be done.
And I must say I am sorry that her parents took the news so badly, but gurl, hang in there!
2007-11-21 17:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, your not straight if your in "girl to girl" relationship. if you consider your self straight, you probably are bi, but that is no big deal.
just tell your mom if you feel obligated she needs to know. because if i go out with someone, i usually dont really tell her.
oh, and sometimes long distances realtionships are good, but sometimes i heard that "long distance realitionships will kill you" (sung in a song by the naked brothers band, ew...). but if the realtionship is strong, then it will work out. just see her a lot, and be really nice. talk on the phone, text, email, ect.
2007-11-21 17:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? If you are in a relationship with a girl and you are also a girl you are not 100% straight. How old are you?
2007-11-21 16:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by whata waste 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a relationship with a girl but you're straight. Are you attracted to her??
sweetie i think you're Bi-confused!
If you're attracted to guys and not girls then get out of the relationship and find urself a boyfriend.
2007-11-21 16:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you are is a human being that needs and wants to be loved and wants to love ,so don't worry about what gender you fall inlove with,as long as your happy with the person your with than that's all that matters
2007-11-21 17:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.... well you may b attracted 2 this person b cuz she reminds you of som 1 u lyk or b cuz she reminds you of a guy you r bi..... but not like.... sure about.. ur not out of the closet but you tell the truth a bout yourself.... lol...!! you should do w/e your
good luck i hope i helped... lol if you dont get confused lol!!!
:-)
2007-11-21 17:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Aloha_lil_roxy_grlie_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend is exactly. EXACTLY like you except one has nice parents and the other doesnt. one girl is pretty much gay and the other is straight except for her and only her.
just, find her on myspace or something.
2007-11-21 16:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you don't understand the definition of straight.
2007-11-21 16:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by RadTech - BAS RT(R)(ARRT) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well u need to tell ur perents n ir u like her u shouldnt brake up with her but i u dont u proble should
2007-11-21 17:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋