i have been messing around with a married man for about a week now and today I got a phone call that I didnt know the number and I answered and said hello twice and a woman came over the phone and said "You're in trouble" and then hung up. I called the number back and nobody will answer even on a different phone that I use. So then I text messaged the guy and asked him if she called me and I told him the number and he said he had no idea wat that # is and that she asked him this morning if he had been talking to someone on the side. I told him i DID NOT WANT to carry on anymore with it and he told me to just lay low for a little bit until it cools down w/his wife. He also said that he still wanted to talk to me & he is still gonna text me and asked me if i work this weekend b/c its a gym and he works out there. I guess he wants to see me? All I am asking is... DOES THIS SOUND LIKE HE IS PLANNING ON STILL CONTINUING ON W/ME? I am not saying I will either......please dont criticize!
2007-11-21 16:14:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, he sounds like he wants to. Get away from him b/c all he will bring is trouble.
2007-11-21 16:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by just me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to continue if you'll allow it, but are you sure this guy is protecting you in the way he handles his business? If you're starting to get crazy calls, it doesn't seem so, does it? When it all goes from sugar to s h i t (and it WILL, it's just a matter of time) then his first instinct is going to be to protect himself and (if you'll forgive the observation), that ain't having a man. Maybe that's alright with you right now because you might just want someone to play with on occasion...that's entirely your business. But if that's the case, there are far less risky people to play with for the same amount of emotional vacancy. If you were in his wife's shoes, how passionately would you fight to keep this guy from playing you? Good luck.
Happy Thanksgiving
2007-11-22 00:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you want good advice, and not just what you want to hear, right?
This guy isn't worth it. You are worth more. Any man who cheats on his wife doesn't deserve either of you imo.
He's using you to fulfill his fantasy, and he's probably blaming it all on his wife. You're buying it hook, line and sinker.
I would ask yourself why you are in this type of relationship at all. Do you feel safer this way? Does it keep you from having to decide if you want permanency, as in marriage? Do you feel you don't deserve anyone better? (((hugs)))
Do some good self care and stop this. You are the only one who can take care of you, obviously this guy can't and won't. He's too busy taking care of himself. TC
2007-11-22 00:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A married man will be with you as long as you let him....even if he gets caught. The ball is in your court, but just hope his wife is not psycho, or you could be in serious trouble....and if you met him at work, well I would think that there is a possibility that you could potentially put your job in jeoperdy.
2007-11-22 00:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by LPett 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about the wife then find someone else to mess around with. Angry wifes kill people!!
2007-11-22 00:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by shaunarenee_2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he still wants u to b part of his life, lol but dnt feel special cuz all men r like this, but plz respect the wife and leave him alone, try to totally ignore him. plz
2007-11-22 00:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by sassybiatch! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he has a wife..you need to be respectful of that..the phone call is scary..but if he cheats in his wife hell cheat on you...
2007-11-22 00:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by whitney d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds mostly like you are a big $lut
2007-11-22 00:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by dano 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i dont think i sould answer wit a ...............................HOE
2007-11-22 00:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by POWWW 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋