i feel ugly, fat, and cursed. I am 13 years old, and pretty tall. I am 5"6' and 138 lbs, but I have a VERY big chest, (A LARGE 34D), and I go to a private school, with 15 people in my grade.
None of the guys like me, they just call me ugly and fat a lot. Guys that do like me just stare at my chest.
I feel so cursed with my body, since I look MUCH older. I am so mad when men shout vulgar comments, thinking I'm older.
How can I feel better?
2007-11-21 16:13:47 · 18 answers · asked by Someone 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
nothing. you could learn how to not make those comments affect you.
2007-11-21 16:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by honey dipp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kids will be kids. Everyone gets made fun of its part of life. However if they are harassing you then this is not ok. Tell a teacher. If your parents are paying money for you to attend a priviate school those kids better not be harassing you! Get my drift?
I wouldn't worry about your size now. You are only 13 and girls continue growing and evening out until they are around 21.
As far as the vulgar comments that just how some men are. They are creeps. If you are really concerned about your breast size I would look into breast reduction when you are 18. Until then just ignore it. Sorry hun
2007-11-22 00:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by MiMi ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bless You.. Your exacly the same as me. Im 13, i weigh over 130 pounds, im quite tall, and im a 34D. I look about 16-17, and boys only want me for my chest. It's so annoying! I always hope theirs a solution.. Boys always stare at my chest which cant really be helped, as all of my tops are low cut :( I just deal with it really.. Hope you can do the same .x
2007-11-25 14:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Deme D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. First off. You have 34D's. Consider yourself blessed. Woman get implants to have a chest that size. You're 13 years old? Don't worry, as you get older guys will notice you more. When you are in school, guys will always call other girls fat. Even if they are skinny skinny skinny, there will always be someone to call them fat. When you get older, you will be getting a lot of attention from guys and hopefully not all of it will be because of your chest. As people get older, they usually mature. So, in your case lets hope this is true for the guys in your school. Just know that for your height you aren't fat and you just have a big chest! There is no harm in that. And when you and the guys are all older, you will notice no one is making fun of you for that anymore by addressing you as fat.
2007-11-22 00:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
boys are THE stupidest breed of animals in the entire world. they should be sent away to live on a seperate planet until they're about 20-25... that's when they stop being challenged... There were these 3 boys that used to call me fat allllll the time when I was about 13.. but I went to the doctor, and I was actually UNDERweight. Then a year later one of those guys begged me to go out with him. wadda loser. I know it's hard, but don't listen to those freaks...
& girls mature physically and mentally about 2-3 years faster than boys, so for now, just (as cartman says) kick 'em in the nuuuuts.
2007-11-22 00:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by webleed.theinkof.subtleallegory 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
13 is a tough age. Kids are really judgmental and influenced by peer pressure. When you get older you'll find people to be less likely to be dumb sheep and more likely to see what's good about you, even if your body doesn't match their ideal.
On the other side of the coin, there are probably things you could do to be healthier and more attractive. Eating healthy food and getting more exercise would be great. Do it for your own happiness, not to try to gain their approval.
2007-11-22 00:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stupid boys. UGH, guys can be so immature.
Hun, dont listen to them! If they call you ugly and fat, ignore them because they are not worthy of your sadness, if they dont take the time to really get to know you, you should not bother listening to their mean remarks.
If you really dont feel good about your weight, you could work out of eat healthier (I know its hard >_<'') but do it for you, not for anyone else. Allrighty?
Many girls are so flat they hate to go outside because they feel ashamed of their itty apearance. Everyone has something they dont like about themselves. Like me, I so friggin' loathe my nose! lol, its so annoying at one point I couldnt even look in the mirror (I have the ugliest nose ever lol), but after a while I realised that my appearance didnt change my personality or who I was, it wouldnt matter if I was fat or thin and with the loveliest and cutest nose in the world, I'd still be me.
So look at yourself now, no matter how much you want ot change, and make all those guys like you, deep inside you'd know that if they dont like you for the way you are, nothing else matters.
So look up! and dont feel bad! I told myself "I am a healty 14 year old with a mother and brother who love me, and I am strong" so no matter now much they might tease you, dont let them hurt you, they're not worth it :]
2007-11-22 00:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by x.x 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right now! Go and look in a mirror and say I'm beautifully. Don't let anyone bring you down. Never And when they saying something rude just say : You jealous or what. you have really big breast and it good.I wish i had 34D. And you not fat at all. I'm 5'7 and weight 141 Ibs and i feel good about myself. Learn how to love yourself. And never let anyone bring you down. GOOD LUCK. You are beautiful.
2007-11-22 00:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aww hun don't let people bother you about YOUR body. first you have to feel comfortable in your own body. If you respect yourself then others will respect you.
Plus, your thirteen. Trust me, you'll probably grow up to be beautiful! Big or thin. You have plenty of time to let the lovely girl hiding inside to show through.
One more thing, don't call yourself ugly. girls with low self esteem end up alone because guys like confident girls. Be happy with who you are and SOMEONE will notice.
2007-11-22 00:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pumpkin♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
learn how to love ur body hey i am 14 and i am like u but not the tall part. u should be happy with the body u got.sometimes i don't like my body but then feel so pretty i don't care anymore i used to but my mom got me threw it.but u should just not listen and if u want to u should do some uper excrsies because if u do ur chest will get smaller.
2007-11-23 16:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Cheergirl-411&JONASFREAK101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are tall and not even close to being fat. Talk to your parents about how u feel about yourself and maybe u can get breast reduction when u are a little older. Report the kids that are being mean to you to a teacher. Talk to a counselor at your school about how u feel about yourself.
2007-11-22 00:18:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋