2007-11-21 16:00:33 · 40 answers · asked by rabbit4041 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He said it only happened one time. So is that still gay? or just stupid?
2007-11-21 16:06:05 · update #1
if he's not gay and it repulses him ... why does he do it?
2007-11-21 16:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
The word "gay" is way too over used. If you have no real emotional attraction to the same sex you could not be called gay. Desiring sex but no emotional attachment would probably be better called a "fetish". Ask any man raped in prison if he is gay. Many lesbians are this way. They do not necessarily love women so much as they just hate men.
2007-11-21 16:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
But bear in mind, the repulsion he may feel doesn't mean that he's straight either. it just means that he regrets having had relations with that particular male.
I had sex with a woman who looked like a horse once. I felt pretty repulsed the day afterwards, but I still am sexually attracted to women only.
2007-11-21 16:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, he could have just been experimenting. If he didnt like it and doesnt do it again, than id say hes straight. But if the repulsion comes from him liking it and feeling asahamed for it, than id say hes gay.
2007-11-21 16:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by angel324 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Meh, I had sex with a man and the next day was repulsed by it, and thus I was a lesbian. By those results, I say yes?
Was his repulsion from a religious standpoint? From family pressures? Confusion?
2007-11-21 16:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Koz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The curiousity that took him there in the first place makes him gay. The act is kinda proof of it. Maybe cause it was his first time, he got repulsed. Not everyone's first, any sex, is that great.
2007-11-21 16:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Rain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say YES!! are you kidding?? Just thinking about having sex with the same gender makes you gay. If you i mean your "nephew" had sex with a man then yes he is flipping gay!
2007-11-21 16:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, yes it does.... which isn't bad (unless you're a christian)
Repulsion doesn't neccesarily come from you yourself, but maybe from what others may think of you.
If he has sex with another man then there is no hiding the fact that he is indeed gay.
Hope my answer helped.
2007-11-21 16:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it doesn't make him gay if he only did it once. If he continues to have sex with men then yes he is gay.
2007-11-21 16:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by whata waste 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, yes, yes it does... More than anything, it makes him seriously ****** up. The fact that he did it proves he's got the homosexual "tendency", and that he felt repulsion the next day only demonstrates his pyschological problems. Those are the types that rape gay hitchhikers and then murder them and eat their flesh, like Jeffery Dahmer. The self-hating gay.
2007-11-21 16:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Pearl Jam 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes if it's sex with the same gender I would consider it gay. If it repulses him then he should not do it.
2007-11-21 16:04:34 · answer #11 · answered by Kym M 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋