ok so my friend is 17 n shes 6 weeks pregnant.... by sumone who told her he would b there for her but isnt... so now she doesnt no what to do.. her parents dont no yet... n shes thinkin bout gettin n abortion but i told her not to n shes not sure what she wants to do.... what is sumin i can say to get her to not get n abortion???
2007-11-21 15:39:54 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_lil_princess200110 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it isnt your right to tell her not to. shes pretty much an adult. maybe it wasnt meant to be and you need to except that...are you going to take care of it? no
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2007-11-25 07:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by girlwithoutaname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her to put the baby up for adoption. There are a lot of people out there that cannot have their own. If her mind is made up you might not be able to change it. She needs to talk to an adult for some guidance.
2007-11-22 00:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to google some abortion pics online
and ask her if she really wants to do that to a baby!!
that will scare her out of it...
especially if the pics are of ppl farther along..
it may sound bad.. but it will work!!
just make sure you don't give up on her
and her not getting an abortion..
tell her about adoption..
there are a lot of options for that...
good luck!!
2007-11-22 00:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kaidence's Mommy!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that, that baby didn't ask to be put in here belly! It's not it's fault! And people (including me) would do just about anything to have the opportunity to be pregnant! She soo very blessed, let her know that!!
2007-11-21 23:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of boys<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's her decision, not your's. if she's 17 and unprepared, who are you to tell her to throw her life away and take car of a baby. it doesn't soudn ot me like she's ready.. maybe an abortions the right decision. i'm not particularly for abortions either.. but it's not your baby or your body. and you should support your friend's decision - regardless if it's what you would have done.
2007-11-21 23:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by carllly 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if dat guy iz willin 2 help her then she must tell her parents cz then she wont be able 2 hide dat stomach once she is lyk 3,4,5,or 6 months of pregant!!!but if da guy isn't goin 2 help her then still ask help 4rm her parents...those are da best choices if she doesn't want 2 abort!!!...
2007-11-22 00:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that thats considered killing,and that if shes a religious christian,its against their beliefs.other than that,just tell her that she can always give the baby up for adoption,nothings wrong with that.[plus alot cheaper!!]
2007-11-22 00:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by eritreangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋