i have recently found out i am pregnet....iam 16 and i don't really know what to do..my b/f claims its all a lie and said if it's true i should eithert get an abortion[wich i dont want 2 do]or he'll dump my sorry *** cuz i don't fit into his perfect american dreams.i want 2 have this child[sorta]and be w/ him and the other half wants 2 scream at him saying it's his fault 4 taking advantage of me.. what should i do?and plez don't be mean...
2007-11-21 15:16:03 · 4 answers · asked by sk8erbabe20 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This one is a very hard decision. If I were you I would dump him just for saying all that. I would keep the baby, but I don't believe in abortion or adoption, I was sexually active when I was 16 also and I don't know what I would have done if I got pg. Right now it would be a blessing if I could. We have been trying for 16 months. But I would dump his sorry *** for treating you that way and saying that to you! If you and a baby didn't fit into his perfect plan he shouldn't have taken advantage of you, and you need to tell him that. If it was me, I would sit down and talk to my mom, I couldn't talk to my dad even if he would have been around and just tell her your feelings about the situation. She would feel a lot better knowing and being able to help you than if she finds out when you start showing or some other way. You need to get the right medical care!! YOu can e-mail me if you want to talk about it! nik_nak_23@yahoo.com
Good Luck with your decisions!
2007-11-21 15:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dylan's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that you trust that you can talk to. He is being very mean to you and obviously doesn't care about you because he is saying those awful things. You know that you want to keep the baby and I am sure that with support from those people who really love you, you will be fine.
You need people around you that are caring and supporting. You are very young, and you have a long road ahead of you now, but keep faith and good luck to you.
2007-11-21 23:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Piluli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with what you feel in your heart and head-Not what he wants. If he is saying this stuff you are better of without him. There are plenty of people that will be there to support and help you through this (family and friends). Let him go off and be a jerk and have a great life without him-He's so not worth it. Good Luck in whatever you choose to do.
2007-11-21 23:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like the type of guy you should be with for another day, let alone "forever."
Make your decision on the baby with your parents and family. You will need alot of help from them if you decide to keep the baby.
2007-11-21 23:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by That's not my name 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋