There are these two mguys that I like both.I like both of their personality but i can only choose one.One of the guys are a jealous type but the one that is a jealous type has a girl friend.He told me that if he would brake up with he for me any day.That he has been meaning tom brake up with he.The other guy use to get high but quit the only thing thats bad about him is he will not give me any space.I need my space from him and he doesn`t understand.We`ll I don`t want to make a bad chose I really like the jeALOUS ONE BUT THEN i DON`T WANT TO GET HURT AND i WANT MY SPACE FROM THE OTHER ONE WHAT SHOULD I DO.PLEASE HELP ME.
2007-11-21 14:10:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
Both of them sound like losers.
2007-11-21 14:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by shopaholicnessa719 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would first calm down because that was really hard to read. Second, no office but both choices don't like "great" catches. One is jealous, but has a girlfriend and will break up with her to be with you, that isn't the best idea. It will just get messy, trust me. The other guy just sounds like a loser, why don't you just take your time and make sure you do the right thing before you rush into a bad desision.
2007-11-21 14:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by randomtask2122 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres a straight out honest answer
if you dont want to get hurt dont choose the guy with the gf
because if he is willing to leave her what makes you think he is not capable of doing that to you
and dont choose the other guy either because if he was into getting high before there is a possibility he still does it and the other reason.... if hes not giving you enough space usually guys that have done drugs and dont give enough space usually turn into the abusive kind
you here alot of calls like that on scanners for the police dept
trust me i know
just keep in mind there are plenty of fish in the sea never settle for less
i dont know you but i do know your better then that and you deserve a better guy
good luck
2007-11-21 14:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by ill shoot an arow thru ur heart! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldn't chose the guy with the girlfriend. If he is looking to date other girls when he is with her and is too cowardly to dump her until he can get you, what's to make you think he want look for other girls if he gets you?
I'd go for the one that just happens to like you so much he wants to spend tons of time with you. If you want more space all you have to do is tell him that some days you need time to be by yourself and rest, and some days you just want to hang out with your friends.
2007-11-21 14:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i advise not to pick either, but hear me out:
the jelous guy: jelousy is not his only problem, if he is still with a girl he doesnt like, wats that suposed to mean?! he might do the same to u & u would never kno. u dont want a guy whos not decent enough to break up with u when ur done & who could drop u like he might dump her! Tell him flat out that jealousy is bad. its ok to feel it tho, as long as u dont do anything about it. make she he sticks to that & all will b good. also tho make sure u dont do nything that could possibly make him jeakous, it would make him him loose faith in u & get even more jealou then b4 (like cheating or flirting)
the other one: umm, he seems like a good guy, as long as u r sure he is over that gettin high thing. thats reali ad if hes thinking about getting bac to it!
go with the one u like, instincts are better than reasoning. good luck :D
2007-11-21 14:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by advice giver & needer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 23:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From Personal experience, I'll tell you go for the second one. Its good he quits everything bad about him. You express how you feel for him. make him understand that you like him. Spend plenty of time with him, so that he'll start realizing himself about what he is doing to you. I'll tell you with feelings and closeness you can change a person. He'll understand you one or the other day.
2007-11-21 14:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Varun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date the guy who already has a girlfriend...he is looking to "trade up" so to speak. He will dump his current gf for you, he is obviously a jerk. People who do that have no consideration for people's feelings.
Go assess things about the other guy, if you like this other guy more than him, maybe you shouldn't be going for either...
2007-11-21 14:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by paulahontus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, never go for someone who is willing to break up with his current girlfriend. If he will do that to her, he will do that to you. Also, you'll need your space. It's no fun to be smothered. Maybe try to find a different guy who is single, and his own person! :)
2007-11-21 14:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one that dumps his gf will dump you later on. The other one wants you as a possession. Find a #3.
2007-11-21 14:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by Steve Barb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol! this questions in the wrong section but thats ok.
I think you should get some time to think about it
but from the sounds of it i think you should just try getting together with that jealous guy..
i hope all goes well:D
2007-11-21 14:13:48 · answer #11 · answered by Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋