I need help. I am 18 year old male virgin, i have made out with several girls and liked it, and I have never been with a guy. Lately I have been having OCD thought where I picture myself with a guy and for a second I get aroused and then almost immediately feel disgusted. I have nothing against gays, i just do not want to be gay, when I masturbate I think about women, but the one second of arousal is driving me CRAZY...am I gay? Or do i have HOCD? I am 100% sure I have OCD, so these gay thoughts play in my head like a cycle...help...
2007-11-21 13:29:24 · 11 answers · asked by portcharles 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
awww dun worry man.
i dont have OCD, but my sister has it >.<
i think that the fact that your worrying that you shouldnt have these thoughts is making it worse.
hell ima totali straight, and i think homo thoughts once ina while too. ITs normal. the thoughts just get worse if you think that you shouldnt be thinking about it.
YOUR not gay. tehehe
il tell ya, ive had much more worse thoughts than that, they are only thoughts, we all get them. sometimes i get thoughts like i wanna kill cute things, push somebody off a building, shoot that old anoying guy in the head, but its just thoughts and you should dwell on em or feel guilty.
jus dun do a ritual to relieve the problem, it wil only get worse if you do that.... let the thoughts carry ya along, and dun worry.
2007-11-21 13:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by jason D.C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, aside from the fact that you need not fear being gay, you shoudl definitely not be freaking out over a one second arousal. Fact is that every person on the planet is at least 1% gay. To be 100% straight is impossible since to do so you would have to be perfect and to be perfect is in direct opposition with being human. So, you are at least partly gay and that part will pop up once in a while and give you a thrill. Just relax and enjoy it.
2016-04-05 02:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with most of the answer I don't think you have O C D but I am quite sure you are gay Why . Because I raised 5 sons which are today 30 yrs and more and never once my sons had a sexual desire with a man It was the opposite they were crazy about girl The reason why your gay thoughts are coming back is because you are refraining your sexual needs with a man
2007-11-21 15:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by lala 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
youre young. that pretty much explains it.
you need to see a doctor about ocd, i doubt it has anything to do with it. youre just confused and young. especially when you are a virgin you wonder about things because you just dont know. youre probably bisexual.
just coz you like kissing girls doesnt mean that you cant be bisexual or gay.
i thought that you wouldnt be able to have sex with a guy that was gay because if hes having sex with a chic i thought it wouldnt be able to rise to the occasion.
pfft it doesnt mean ****. i lost my virginity to a gay guy who was pretending to be straight. hed been kissing girls and **** but whatever. im annoyed now. bye
2007-11-21 13:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not gay you are just curious.
dont feel bad a lot of males have these feelings one time or another in their lives.
your not disgusting and your not weird.
there are 2 things you can do either keep your male attraction inside and just let it bother you from time to time or, you can have an experience with a male.
it just depends on how you want to handle it.
2007-11-21 13:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People with OCD tend to repeat their actions. You have asked this question at least four times. Uh oh. As to whether you might be bisexual: don't have a cow. So what? Who cares?
2007-11-22 08:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT GAY OR BISEXUAL!!
I've read MANY MANY times, as much to have my convinced, that it is COMPLETELY normal to be thinking about guys during masturbation. Every teen boy thinks of it, and most of those boys are straight, its a natural part of growing up.
its perfectly natural.
2007-11-21 13:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by T.M. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a weird manifestation of ocd. if you were gay you wouldn't like girls. perhaps you have bisexual tendencies buit most likely its just a weird ocd thing. i would go to a psychologist who specializes in that field
2007-11-21 13:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude take it from a lesbian, save the chicks for me and have sex with guys
2007-11-21 13:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Amy L 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
DON'T ACT ON THOSE THOUGHTS.
I don't want to get preachy or anything, but it's not a sin to be gay. It is a sin, however, to commit gay actions (physical actions if you get what I'm saying).
2007-11-21 13:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋