My husband and I separated about a month ago. We have 2 kids, which I have. Do I have to go to his family's Thanksgiving dinner or can I get away with just dropping the kids off and going home or back to my family's or something? I don't want to seem like a total *****, but is that ok to do?
2007-11-21 12:48:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
thats the way I would do it...=-)
2007-11-21 13:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Saw Dust♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been separated from my husband for about 2 months and hell no I'm not going to his families house. I think once the two of you split that was the end of the going to the others families house for the holidays.
2007-11-21 21:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Angel of Death says F-IT! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His family will understand if you don't go, I would make sure they understand you still like them, and not cause a rift in your relationship with them , u will be bumping into them frequently as well, I would worry about your husband acting up more so, and ruining it for everyone.He might try and make a scene being that he hasn't seen you in a while, or maybe you go, and just don't stay all day.. go late, and leave early
2007-11-21 22:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to be there. You really don't even need to let the kids go. If he wants them there he should pick them up and then you can pick them back up later. It isn't easy and I really feel for you. You ever need to chat you know where to find me. Good luck little lady.
2007-11-21 23:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Raistlin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my fiance explained the situation to his son before he decided not to attend a bday party at the ex's place anymore.
always put kids first ⥠find out what they prefer. the adults are old enough to understand whatever decision is made.
2007-11-21 20:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by Solicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can just drop them off. Im seperated from my kids father and he has them school holidays and we alternate xmas days xx
2007-11-21 20:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by pinkkittenliverpool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine to just drop off the children.
2007-11-21 20:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by copswife134 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to be with your kids on Thanksgiving?
2007-11-21 20:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does HIS family want you there? (They might). I would ask them. And since the separation is so 'new', it might not be a bad idea to stick around.
2007-11-21 20:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by John N 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
drop them off and run and enjoy the peace and quiet....
2007-11-21 20:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥STREAKER♥©℗† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi hope u did and had fun hug
2007-11-22 16:31:47 · answer #11 · answered by WTamSP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋