my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex, but it was honestly for only about 10 seconds, he didnt even precum or come at all, is it possible to get pregnant like that? for the past almost 2 weeks ive had headaches and sometimes stomach aches every day, could this be connected? i'm not even 18 and im really worried....please some answers?
2007-11-21 11:24:46 · 39 answers · asked by Kisses lil Hugs 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ask your mom and maybe she can talk to you (sternly) about how you're not even 18 yet and not even have the knowledge or sensibility to use protection...
2007-11-21 11:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by 1080 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You've already had ALOT of answers to this but hey, I'm still gonna answer.
More than likely he did c-u-m or pre cuz otherwize, why would u have stopped?
Unprotected is always dangerous. Although I can't really say anything. I'm 15 and i dont use protection but am on birth control.
It's tru that it only takes 7 seconds to get sumone pregnant. You really should have added why you stopped cuz if someone walked in or parents came home i can understand but otherwise my best guess would be he "went."
Just to be on the safe side get a home test and dont let these "symptoms" get 2 u. They could be false.
Good luck with whatever happens hun!!!
2007-11-21 11:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking about? Of course it's possible to get pregnant like that! Better get a pregnancy test because guess what? Yes. Your headaches and stomach aches could be connected. You should be worried, mom.
2007-11-21 11:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by eagleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be quite blunt with you.....as a man enters a woman he secretes a fluid to lubricate her. It is sperm and yes you can get pregnant in 5 seconds. Never have unprotected SEX ! It is dangerous and has very unexpected results. If you do not use a condom....there is a great chance that you could be pregnant. 10 seconds or any seconds can cause a pregnancy. I know from experience. I am a great Grandmother.
2007-11-21 11:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is connected. You are giving yourself ulcers from all the worrying from having unprotected sex. You do not know that he didn't have precum because you could not see it if he did. You are taking risks that are going to end up making your and your boyfriend parents. Just use a condom for heaven sakes so you will not have to tell you parent/s and your boyfriend you are pregnant.
2007-11-21 11:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're probably stressing yourself out a lot. That can cause headaches and stomachaches. Wait and see if you miss your period (which might happen even if you're not pregnant due to worry), then take a test if it's more than a few days late.
AND USE CONDOMS! For goodness' sake, worse things than pregnancy can come from unprotected sex, and with many of those, all it takes is contact.
2007-11-21 11:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by Julia S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is a small possibility that you could become pregnant... so never EVER have unprotected sex. There is also the possiblity of you having and STD.. i would go to the doctor and checked for both. And use a rubber next time for goodness sake
2007-11-21 11:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its possible (its very hard to tell if there was precum or not) but the odds are really fairly small. Could be that you are just getting sick, but it certainly wouldn't be a bad idea to take a test, just to be extra sure. If you really wanna do it without a condom, at least use SOMETHING! If you aren't concerned with disease (which everyone should be), you can at least use a spermacide, but I would recommend at least 2 means of protection. I wouldn't trust my future on just one.
2007-11-21 11:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by leeannfornow 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really want to tell you "no", but there is a possiblility. And even if you aren't pregnant, but thankful and make sure you use a condom next time. And, not to be mean or anything, I just want to point this out, you don't really know if he pre cu'med or not. So, just be aware, and if you don't want to talk to your parents about it, get a test. Same thing happened to my younger sister. But she didn't get pregnant, THANK GOD!
2007-11-21 11:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He starts producing pre-come as soon as he gets hard, so it's entirely possible that you are pregnant. If your period doesn't show on time, get a pregnancy test.
It could just be because you are stressed out about it.
2007-11-21 11:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you take a 40/60 chance. the rythm method. i do that with my bf but have not ovulated for 4 yrs... but for me, if i get pregnant it's my decisions and my choice, he can't even afford to take me on a date, or pay rent or even 20 bucks for food cause his mamma makes him pay her bills, so he got to go....and if i get baby, it's mine. he is gonna raise a kid on 20 bucks? no. the kids mine and he can go. after giving him chances to get it together ,..;.now he's got to take a hike and date mamma.but at least i know that and accept the consequences now.
2007-11-21 11:31:06 · answer #11 · answered by PreciousBladesTM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋