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2007-11-21 10:35:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
fear of rejection is really fear of uncertainty.
when people can not predict the outcome
to an action they plan to do in the future.
this uncertainty is an emptiness or a void.
it needs to be filled.
since people worry about many things
the worry fills this void and festers.
it becomes magnified and exaggerated.
to guard against this type of behavior of the mind.
think about what you want to do
that involves an uncertain outcome.
now imagine the ideal outcome.
decide right now that the ideal outcome will be the actual outcome.
whether this is true is not important.
this will stop any other negative thoughts from filling the void.
this allows you to take action, when action is needed.
without the lingering worries that make most people procrastinate.
2007-11-21 10:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brad456 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a person can really take rejection. You really can't learn to accept it. It's such a bad feeling. You sorta have to deal with it when it happens.
People fear it for many reason and can come from a variety of sources. Some people may always expect other to accept them because of silly things as clothing or things of that nature or even just repeatedly being rejected from anyone.
Someone may take it easier than another but that doesn't mean they fully accepted it. It's just in human nature to not tolerate it. No one wants to feel like they don't fit in.
This is a complicated question.
2007-11-21 10:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is like baseball. It is a game of failure.
A great batter only gets a hit less than a third of the time.
You learn from it, make adjustments.
And the more at bats you have, the better.
Just keep swinging away. Don't be left at the plate with the bat on your shoulder.
And if you do get a rejection, you have nothing to lose by asking why, and the other person has no need to be anything but honest.
2007-11-21 11:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear of rejection comes from giving too much importance to other people's opinions of you. Be confident in the person you are and know that there will be some people who like you, some who will dislike you, and a few who will think you're amazingly wonderful just the way you are.
2007-11-21 10:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I have that fear of rejection- it come from within. Most of my friends think I have a low self esteem and I need to have faith in myself. If someone rejects you accept it. In the end at least you were clear with them and you tried. Just think how they have missed out on something so fabulous!
2007-11-21 10:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by bluestar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of all of it stems back on your self-worth & self know... in case you weren't taught to settle for rejection as one in each and every of those stability on your existence meaning, no longer everybody wins each and every of the time, there should be a loser, then needless to say dropping or being rejected will injury worse. Take the rejection like a frown & turn it the different way up! learn from it... yet do no longer enable it to take administration of who you're! you're Beautilful, smart, & packed with existence! next time lean greater in the direction of being fulfilled interior of, experience sturdy approximately your initiatives & what you had to grant! You under no circumstances understand, that concept of yours perchance used in a while... under no circumstances burn a bridge which could lead on on you on your trip spot sometime!!!
2016-09-29 23:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it comes from the cave man's time ...if you were rejected by the tribes in the cave you would have to live alone and rejected. Today it carries almost the same meaning but less trajedy than for the cave man........
2007-11-21 12:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by missellie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people fear it because we all want to feel important and loved. if we don't have those two then we lose self esteem and become inferior. depression sets in. just love yourself first. that is most important
2007-11-21 10:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by notmygame 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well joey, its kinda hard to explain...like, i guess your afraid that if someone dosn't like you, that your a terriable person. that you cant do anything. obvously that is NOT true, but it feels like that sometimes.
where does it come from? well..i think with most peple its just a personaliety trait. like how some people are just outgoing
2007-11-22 02:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by OMGWHO?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to learn to take rejection!in the beginning,you feel sad and then it turns to anger and then revenge and then you start to feel better,and then you find sby else,and it starts all over again!!
2007-11-21 10:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋