need a little 2 cents; my ex took my child out of county on my time for Thanksgiving break?

Question

We have joint physical and legal, we both agreed on splitting vacations. last year I had my child for the first part of Thanksgiving, my ex was supposed to get my child on the day of Thanksgiving day but she refused saying she didnt have a ride but she came to get my child at night after the dinner, then told my child that it was my childs fault cause she didnt want to go with her and that supposedly I didnt let her go. I let her know that I wuold get my child the last part, but i cant recall if she agreed or not. I was suposed to pick my child up this last part of the week, and I told my ex she can have my child for Thanksgiving day , she erfused, and told me she would be taking off out of town , which on the court order said she cannot. Suposedly she told her atorney ad the attorney said it was ok. Yet, earlier this year she did the same thing and the police wanted to seek charges, but because I am understanding did not want t take it further but has been filed as a report and will

be showed to the judge.

Sorry for not stating the question, I got a phone call and now I lost my train of thought , doh!

Answer 1

Your ex obviously doesn't care about the court order or how your child feels. I would definitly take this to the judge and possibly press charges. With all the crazies out there, you need to protect your child. You may not think your ex would do anything to harm her, but you need to be careful.

I think by the way you posted your question, I think you already know the answer, you just need some back up.

Answer 2

Stop putting this child in the middle of your fights with your ex. Do you know how bad the child will begin to feel after a while? The poor kid will think all this crap is his/her fault and feel deep guilt and depression over it. One of you is going to have to back away from this situation until things smooth over or one or the other of you grows up.