you found out just recently that your mother slept with your boyfriend while you was away in colorado visiting family. My mother told me that she didnt want me with this guy, and to have an abortion when i was pregnant. Is that the reason why she wanted me to have the abortion, because if i would of found out, that they had been sleeping together, that i would drop both of them? What would u do drop both? I disklike my mother right now, but its putting stress on my relationship.
2007-11-21 08:05:25 · 25 answers · asked by ~*Jenny*~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave those two nasties to grow nasty together. Get away from them. You can be strong for yourself and your baby.
2007-11-21 08:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by ericsmaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first get rid of the guy. He is a loser. What type of man sleeps with his girls mum? You should also step back and look at your mom. That is not normal behavior for a good mother, you can only ask yourself how many times has she done this before? i would say drop them both and as for the baby that is 100% up to. Do what is in your heart but take out the trash and get rid of them 2!
2007-11-21 08:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by kittenthemagician 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are going to get a lot of crazy answers in regards to this but honestly you need to seriously evaluate your relationship. If I were you I would dump the guy first of all. If he can cheat on you, with your Mom or anyone else for that matter, then he is not worth it. The next thing you need to do is sit down with your Mom and have a long serious talk. My first question if I were you would be Why?? of course. But your Mom is your mother no matter what. If you choose to disown her because of this then you definitely better dump him as well. I hope for your sake that you and your Mom can work this out. Remember guys will come and go but Family is forever. Good Luck!! : )
2007-11-21 08:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by jfoot1110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Yikes. First, break up with your lying, cheating, no good boyfriend. Then, get away from your mom for at least a while. If you live w/her, move out! These two are completely disregarding your feelings, and you deserve better! In the future, if your mom apologizes and shows you that she has changed, you could consider letting her back into your life. But for now, get as far away from both of them as possible! The way they've treated you is horrible, and should not be tolerated! Good luck.
2007-11-21 08:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Terry H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well princess, i wouldn't do anything to my mother but my boyfriend yes. not really, she probably didn't want you to have a family with him, but if he's a nice guy, your mother might want just to have sex. you might not talk to your mother for two or three months, but you can drop your boyfriend for a little time (if he's a nice guy), if he's not a nice guy drop him for good. don't dislike your mother now, give her some time to explain first. and also get some explications from your boyfriend.
2007-11-21 08:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your boyfriend very much and if he didn't cheated you before I would maybe give him a second chance, as for the mother I would forgive her because you only have one mother. This is what would I do!
2007-11-21 08:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Stefo3008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont drop your mother, drop the boyfriend for actually doing that, also try to make up with your mum, she probly dint mean it that way because, if she did she would hate you, and if she didnt then she will try and make up with you by anymeans possible.
DROP THE BOYFRIEND!
Hope this helps!=D
2007-11-21 08:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by ZingyPingy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG u poor thing yea id be pretty pissed at both yea i dont think i could ever forgive either even though she is ur mom how could ur mom do that to u ya know ...thats like so messed up! i would move far away
2007-11-21 08:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by TotallyAwesomeChic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you findout that your mother was sleeping with your boy friend then drop your boy friend and not abortion. Now about your mother, she would realize her mistake.
2007-11-21 08:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both bye,it would take a lifetime to regain the trust again.But when the time comes to trust again,I would try to work on gaining Mom's trust again.I would tell him that you don't even want to regain his trust.Both are pretty sorry people,But he is a sorry M.F.
2007-11-21 08:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by American_Dago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him .
but also make sure your mother drops him too.
your relationship with your mother is way more important than any man.
2007-11-21 08:08:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋