I'm a 15year old M2F transgender living as boy. I'm straight as a boy so if I ever get to be the girl I desire to be I'll be a lesbian which I'd much rather be because that's just who I am and I prefer being thought of and being treat like one of the girls and I have aload of great friends including my exgirlfriend who's my my bestfriend and who treat me like the girl I really am. Now my exgirlfriend despite only being 12 going on 13 knows this and is really understanding and has always treat me like and thought of me as one of the girls ever since we first met(by the way she is straight) and when we were going out I was more like one of her girlfriends rather then her boyfriend and I still am and she seemed to be the one who took the dominant role in the relationship and stuck up for me and everything and I liked this because it made me feel safe and secure and she still does the exact same thing for me and I love her for how understanding she is.
Is it natural that I like my...
2007-11-21 07:47:11 · 9 answers · asked by Lily R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
...exgirlfriend protecting me?
2007-11-21 07:47:30 · update #1
Of course it's natural that you like to have someone protect you--who wouldn't? However, given that it's your ex-girlfriend, I'm not so sure it's a good thing.
2007-11-21 13:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by GirlInside 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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For women in particular, texting can end up being a fun “game” where they can do or say anything (even things they would never do in the “real” world). Texting is non confrontational. Odds are your relationship ended on a heated note. I don’t know why you and your ex broke up, but there was probably at least one (if not a few dozen) big fights. Done properly (the way I’m going to teach you), texting is simple and subtle. You can slowly feed your ex tested and proven messages and ideas without the risk of either one of you flying off the handle, falling back into old and destructive patterns, and throwing plates at each other.
2016-02-12 03:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone appreciates someone caring about them enough to want to defend them. I used to get bullied at school myself and frequently a girl would step in and end it. Physically, I'm actually quite strong now - in terms of my levels of endurance and weight I can carry - but I lack any fighting skills. Self defence classes are a must on my list of things-to-do though.
I get a mental picture of you being, as myself, slight in build and not overly tall, with a pale complexion and nervous disposition. Am I right?
If you do suffer abuse (bullying), then you must harness the anger that you feel inside and use it productively as a drive to get things done that you know you want to achieve. Also, whilst avoiding reacting to people that may taunt you, when you know this will make the situation worse - do not hang your head either. Be proud of who you are.
Your ex. sounds like a very self-confident little lady but there will probably come a time when something will shatter her composure - the death of a relative or pet for example - and she will have need of your emotional support at such a time.
I agree whole-heartedly with the answerer who wanted to point out to you that men are emotional creatures too and are no less fragile than women, however much they try to hide it. Now I'm going to see if I can't hunt out some song lyrics for you:...http://lirama.net/song/67759
NONAME: You are a vile person. Drop Dead!
2007-11-21 12:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..i'm a dude..i mean really.."y" chromosome and all..but..what can i say..r u sure u want to be a guy? i mean not just because u think it's hip to be a guy..or because u have some self confidence issues.. i really thing u have some of those and that actually u are trying to copy a guy's behavior because u think that guys are immune to all suffering (physical and more important soul ones)..well it's not like that! all human suffer (women and ..yes men)..the only thing you can do is to live ur life..be urself (seems like ur still trying to find out who u really are..urs is the age all people have identity issues..so don't think this a unique thing related solely to ya..so find out)..accept who u really are no matter what..and more important..accept the fact that u are a tiny little person and there's a whole universe out there and..u won't believe this but it doesn't revolve around you! Accept it..embrace it..live with it!..Maybe u'll think that this makes u a lesser person..the truth is..would u like to have the responsibility of the whole world on ur shoulders? would u like to be responsible for each child that dies of hunger in sub-saharian africa? For each suffering in the world?guess not! so take into account that every weakness is a strength in the end..it's just a matter of perspective
2007-11-21 08:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Cipi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes but it's the wrong way around guys should be protecting girls and not girls protecting guys even if your a lesbian guy
2007-11-21 07:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
why do you fancy an 12 yr old? seriously and people don't give me thumbs down. SERIOUSLY think of how wrong that it.
I actually think this thing is a fake
2007-11-21 08:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're 15 and your girlfriend is 12??? How can you, and her, know what you want at such a young age? Get a grip and live your life!
2007-11-21 07:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Yes it's alright...
2007-11-21 07:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, everyone is different!
2007-11-21 09:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋