Was this sluttish of me!!! help he unbuttoned my shirt i didnt stop him?

Question

ok well yesterday we were at the library in the computer lab. It was biology class the last class of the day well this happened.
Me, shawn, lorie, and jesse were there and me and lorie have the same bras so we were talking about that. Then shawn started unbuttoning my shirt so that he could so my bra(i didnt do nothing) and ummm yeah he only saw like where my boobs meet and stuff. Lorie and Jesse saw too. I feel disgusted with myself cuz i didnt do anything i just stood there i feel like ugh!!! where the **** was my dignity at we are all friends i need to . make sure that that never happens again . Cuz i just stood there and i didnt do anything about it help!!! Im not the type of flirting popular girl. So why did i let that happen? im 15 help me and talk some sense into me!!! note i have only gone out with 1 person my whole life.

Answer 1

Relax, your not a slut. It would be natural for you to be fighting with TWO conflicting feelings, that would of had you.... well... tougue-tied? At ends? Confused? Just plain not to sure how to react. Frist off he IS a guy, and your ARE a 15 year old female, all the 15 year olds I knew were CURIOUS! Just play CURIOUS! Doesn't mean you would of let him make sweet, sweet love to you in the libaray, but does mean you were curious what the heck he was doing. So you had this sort of good feeling of curiousity, conflicting with the intense feeling of this isn't right, what the f is he doing. So its natural that it went the way it did, apparantly your sense of social purpose, and high ideals are GREATER then your animal curiousity. So technically, your a horrible slut, and actually a normal, healthy, learning woman, keep up the good work, you DID keep some of your dignity. Try not to let them get that far agian thou ;-)