my two best friends and i had a massive argument on friday but yesterday we made up !
it was all because i felt left out because of lots of little thiings like them going together always in p.e and me left out and sleeping at others houses and not inviting me!
i told them i how i felt and they finally forgave me ...
this week i just looked on one of theirs bebo and the other friend left a comment sayin can i go with you for p.e and do you want to sleep on friday!
are they doing this on purpose?!!?
i feel like a loner and why are they doing this!?!
2007-11-21 06:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am 13 actually!!!!
and i really like my friends when they don't leave me out!!!!
i also ahve another group of friends which all 3 of us are friends with but they make me feel left out because i haven't spend much time with them before
2007-11-21 06:54:30 · update #1
Why don't you ask if both of them can sleep over...try to make yourselves a threesome again. You ask if all three of you can go to the mall or the movies..all together. Don't leave it up to them to always ask you...you need to initiate stuff too. If you ask only one of them, the other will feel left out like you have been feeling. You will make them see that all three of you together is a lot of fun...and can count on each other.
2007-11-21 06:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two best friends, Lily and Vanessa. Sometimes it is not possible for friends to forget some comments,even though they may have forgiven you. That's life my love.
Now are they in habit of looking at your Bebe? If they are, I would suggest, pouring out all my feelings and insecurities to them and apologise for being a jerk. If they accept you, they are friends indeed, and if they don't, they will never be your friends in need.
I get jealous of my two friends spending more time with each other, as I don't see them for years alto gather. But they both feel this, and let me know what is happening in life and
, and what is happening with me.
If they don't make you feel left out, you don't need the friends who do! Be patient, and if the friendship as is important to them, as it is to you, they will realise if and come around,
Even now when I go home I see my friends individually, but when we get TO GATHER, we can be pretty funny, We usually start our sentences from where we last left incomplete.
If these girls make you feel that, than YOUR OK! OK?
2007-11-21 07:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by mx. know it all 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, ive been there before.
Try and find 2 other friends to be your best mates and do it to them and see how they feel , sooner or later they will realise how you feel and also you wouldnt feel left out if they went with each other in p.e.
2007-11-21 07:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a similar story, my friend got involved with some girls and they always left me out. we made up but when the girls found out we were going to have a sleepover they asked if they could come and i told my friend i could not be around those girls so she said she would tell them NO but when i got to her house the girls were there. i suggest you make new friends.
2007-11-21 06:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is find new freinds lots of them make them feel left out
2007-11-21 06:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget them. They arent real friends. And you should be the one forgiving them! Not you! Its there fault. Get better friends.
2007-11-21 06:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG OMG OMG OMG!! THE SAME THING HAPPENED 2 ME!! THAT'S SOOOO WEIRD!
2007-11-21 06:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋