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2007-11-21 06:40:35 · 94 answers · asked by Ashlee G 1 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

I really would not want to date a guys who does live their parents

2007-11-21 06:46:04 · update #1

94 answers

It depends on the circumstance......

2007-11-22 00:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Thats a hard question. It totally depends on the person. Personallly I would love to be out of the house by 30. Some people have financial problems and have to live with there parents. Some need to stay with their parents to help or maybe nurse them. Some are just lazy loners. So unless you have a good reason for staying with your parents you should find and live your own life.

2007-11-21 06:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mateo 3 · 1 0

Only under certain circumstances. Like if they are caretakers for one of their parents, or they've been in an accident and need help with their own care, possibly if they lost their job and would of been homeless otherwise, or things like that.

If a guy (or girl) lives with their parents at any age after college really, just because they are too lazy to live in the real world, then it's not okay to me. I know a few of these mooching types, and it's just sad. What's worse is the parent's who allow it to happen!

2007-11-21 07:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ambi 4 · 0 0

I worry about any statement containing the word "should". There are people in the world putting themselves through college or an internship, for whom a parent's home provides a cost-effective housing alternative. There are people so lazy they can't pull their own weight, for whom a parent's home is a way to aviod responsibility, but it's also the old "failure to launch" syndrom. There may be a reason for that failure, which would make the "should" statement moot. The matter is a little deeper than just whether or not it "should" happen.

2007-11-21 06:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by DayinthePark 3 · 0 0

NO they shouldn't, UNLESS there is a very very good reason for it. Such as physical or mental illness/disability or they have just suffered the loss of a spouse/partner/child or something as major as that.
It is not healthy otherwise and you will find out, that it brings a lot of baggage with it. These types of guys usually do it because they get everything done for them and life is easy.

Guess what!, they are going to expect you to do the same for them!, you will be the one to take over their mums role..

Men and women need to learn independence and how to cook, clean, iron, wash etc etc by themselves, to make good partners. If you are happy to date someone who is looking for a mum in their partner then go ahead. But don't ever expect an equal relationship.

Take it as a warning sign and move on..

2007-11-21 06:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Please pass this message along: Guys; don't do what I've done. Once you're out, stay out no matter what. I stayed with my parents until I was nearly 50 and there are so many things that I cannot do for myself now that I might have been able to do. Try to get through the hardships. If you need advice, ask for as there is no shame in needing help; and if you need money and it comes down to it, go door to door and ask if there is something you can do for them to earn it. Whatever it takes( legally) stay on your own. I wish very much that I had.

2007-11-21 06:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by James Gordon W 4 · 0 0

People, regardless of their sex should not be living at home by the age of 30, unless they are caring for a parent or something like that that would keep them there

2007-11-21 06:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Crooked Johnson 4 · 2 0

Not usually. I did have a friend move back into his mom's large house from his townhouse (which he rented out) in order to help his mom maintain her home and also help care for her... but that is an exceptional scenario.
In some cultures it is expected that the family will live together in one home... parents, grandparents, children as well as a variety of extended family members. In that case it is not only normal, but expected.

2007-11-21 06:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by dedum 6 · 1 0

If you are an able-bodied man over the age of 30 and your parents are able-bodied and independent then, no.

Sometimes circumstances occur where an adult has to rely on their parents.

2007-11-21 06:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Depends on the situation, there are so many factors that could contribute to the reasons for someone to be living with their parents at that age.
If you judge to soon you don't know what you could be missing out on.

2007-11-21 08:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

depends on the parents and the son...
I've known a single male to move back to help when parents are sick or need help maintaining house.. and some that wanta be around their parents, I also live in area where average apts and home cost alot so you need 2 incomes to live here.. being single makes it really hard to go it alone..

2007-11-21 06:47:32 · answer #11 · answered by msmomofmany 2 · 1 0

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