My buddy and I are going on a trip next week (he's gay and I'm bi leaning gay) but he lives with another dude currently.
We have a very good mutual female friend in common and she relayed this absolutely silly story about me and my buddy taking a business trip and how my buddy is going to miss his man so much, he's never been away from him this long, what will he do without me, blah, blah, blah. I say awwwww isnt that sweet and then it happened.
The mutual friend looks me in the eye and says " your both full of s**t, what the f**k are the 2 of you up to"? I'm gonna tell _______ the truth, he doesnt deserve this.
I'm sure I got caught like a deer in the headlights because I'm not up to anything, if something happens great and if not that's ok too so I told her this and she just stormed off.
What do I do now?
2007-11-21 06:24:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I agree that if my buddys man can trust him our mutual friend should be able to trust us as well, but the truth is she's right there is a different vibe to this trip and my buddy has been lying to his man big time about it. I don't necessarily approve of the lying but I'm not a big fan of my buddy's man either.
2007-11-21 06:37:30 · update #1
All 3 go? My buddy doesn't want him to go, I'm not fond of the dude but I could tolerate him if necessary.
2007-11-21 06:46:41 · update #2
just ignore crazy people
2007-11-21 06:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by ecast4uhm246 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helen DeGeneres got over it when Ann Hetch (sp) swung back to hetero..Your buddy's bud will get over it too. Maybe the girl is hinting that she thinks your hot..and since you're bi, looks like she needs something stuffed in her mouth or some other orifice to shut her up.
2007-11-21 14:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by nars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are an idiot, if you want to preserve two friendships and a good relationship cancel the trip and apologize for being an insensitive, self-serving prick
cheers
2007-11-21 14:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by mishkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All three go thats how a friendship works in gay couples.
2007-11-21 14:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens, it happens, if it doesnt thats good . If it happens, make sure you tell him, dont have him believing that they have an honest relationship. Because they dont!
2007-11-21 14:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go .Your interself is already screaming at you not to do this, or you wouldn't of put this question out.
2007-11-21 14:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by saveitok 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, sounds like way to much drama going on here to me :P
2007-11-21 14:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on your trip. what happens, happens
2007-11-21 14:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Chad L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are planning a wee something, and youve been pinged.
2007-11-21 14:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man+man=sick disgusting freaks
woman+woman=sick disgusting freaks
woman+man=non gay christian marriage
2007-11-21 14:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by Laurie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋