This is really hard. Im a 15 yr old dude whos been trying and so far succesfully gone with out internet porn. Its getting tougher though. I dont want to break this streak. The reason why i cant look at this stuff is because i get the bad side effects. What can i do so i no longer feel the temptations?
2007-11-21 04:59:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
by side effects i mean bad images in my head, nervousness you know the works
2007-11-21 05:08:47 · update #1
When ever i get a "temp" as i call them i work out. Do Set Ups, Push ups, free weights; believe me if you work out hard when you get a temptation it takes your mind right off out it. you work out more you look better then you get a girl and dont need the internet porn.
2007-11-21 05:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's easier to replace a bad habit with a good habit instead of just trying to get rid of the bad habit, So find something you can do instead of watching porn, something that you will enjoy in a non-sexual way or that makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe go running or shoot baskets. Maybe during the time of day when you're used to watching porn, arrange to do some serious volunteer work. Set a goal of two extra A's on your next report card and study hard at the library instead of coming home and turning on the smut.
Don't let porn conrol you -- you need to get in charge of your own life and how you spend it. Porn is really unhealthy and teaches guys to regard females as objects instead of treating them as equal human beings, and it sets totally unreal expectations (such as how big a penis is supposed to be -- the ones on porn are mostly digitally enhanced). Breaking this bad habit is an important way to earn some real self-respect.
You could consider getting a filter on your computer (something like NetNanny) that will make it harder to access the filthy stuff. BTW, porn sites are very likely to give you a computer virus.
Keep at it even if you slip a few times. You are a valuable person, and you should spend your time doing things that make you proud of yourself, not watching some sicko sex stuff. Sex is beautiful at the right time with the right person. Don't let porn pollute it for you.
2007-11-21 14:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are relying on porn for satisfaction all the time then you might find it difficult to have a normal sexual relationship with a girl. You will find that the porn will need to be more hardcore as time goes by and you will be temped to try to find websites that are best avoided, so be careful you don't know what you will get yourself into on the web.
Cold shower? Workout?
2007-11-21 13:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by ed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there is always your imagination while dreaming instead of looking at porn. Besides it fills up your hard drive and brings in the viruses. Not worth it. But did not have that when was 15. We had the Geographic Magazines. Funny..huh.
2007-11-21 13:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ken H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get "bad side effects" does that just mean getting boners and jerking off? That's kinda normal. If you are experiencing any other side effects to getting aroused, like getting violent, or angry you could have legitimate disorder and should see a therapist.
2007-11-21 13:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by baloneyjack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the same i love looking at porn when im horny it hurt the penis when its sticks up and its thin
2007-11-21 13:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
good for u!
just ignore all of those stuff.
2007-11-21 16:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋