I'm so tired of men!!!?

Question

I can't stand this drama situation... every guy I have ever engage myself with just causes heartache. Just drama... you can't put your penis in your pants!!!

I only been in 3 relationship. I'm 20 so I dated from 22, 25, 30!! It is the same Sh*t ( excuse my french) I'm not saying I'm perfect but... my goodness this is too much!! The odds are against me

a guy is only as faithful as his options!!! I totaly agree with this!!

I think Im going to post this as a question asking the guys about this

Answer 1

ok i will prolly get hell for this but , from what i can see you are attractive! so the men you date are probably attractive. there for have more options and a more juicy past then say a nerd. i think girls like us always have the same problem, we date men with egos as big as ours and then we get disappointed. the men that come on here and say not all men are the same
are probably from a more conservative past with good families, maybe not so attractive or popular... i have been stung to, and i asked for advice as well, it seemed i only got advice from guys i would not usually be interested in, you know the type. the kind you want to take shopping with you, those guys that say i am such a nice guy why wont the hot girls date me... because hot girls date bad boys, they have their pick and usually pick the very attractive highly sociable guy with lots and lots of choices when it comes to women. men are weak and women through themselves at this type of guy. so a guy is only as faithful as his options, a guy with less options is gonna be the guy that says i would never do that to you...... so it is probably the type of men you are dating which is probably not going to change cause you are not going to be attracted to the nice guys

Answer 2

This is not about the men, this is about you and what you want. You should find a guy that you like on the inside not the outside. The word that comes to my attention is "engage"
Get to know him. Girls today are to easy to please. Men can be divided into six categories. Most women go after 2 or attract two categories
Look at the picture that present to us? Women fit into 5 categories, you attract hunters. Which means the guy will do what ever he can to get to you and have sex. Once the game is over the hunter goes onto his next hunt. I would need more information but you would fall under the prey category. You run a little, wait run , then wait. Then you give in. And wonder why there gone. You never communicate with men its all about looks. The "drama" in the relationship is the hunt itself.
I could write a book on this subject.

Answer 3

well, if men (the one you like) give you that much of a heartache there four solution.
1) Stop going out with the same kind of guys...period.
2) Stop dating dating for a while and don't complaint about it lately.
3) If that your picture that you have posted, I would said that you're young and very sexy lady. If you want men see you in a different light than sexy. Stop dress so sexy, all you're really doing is showing out your sexy side to get the attention from the men. In their mind and mine too, I see a sexy young woman that I would be more eger to enjoy her body (sex). Because that is the only thing you're highlight to men when you wear clothes like that at a club, bar, or at a party.

4) Get over yourself, I am not being rude towards you but what you're saying is kinda silly if you look at it. Why do you think people date? Well, they want to meet someone whom they like and have a good time. Good time is about having sex, that's a fact! What will you do if you do met a guy who will keep his weed whacker in his pant. And not ever bring the subject of having sex with you unless you bring it up. What are you thought be about him? What is the chance you will said/think that he interest more into you than having sex with you. Or that something is wrong with him and even that he doesn't find you sexy enough like the other guys who can't wait to enter you.

Answer 4

Okay, so your point is that every guy you have dated was a loser? Ever girl I ever dated gave me drama, so should I believe that all girls are evil? Well let's see, that leaves me with the options of celibacy and loneliness for life, or I could turn gay, and that's a NO that I can't emphasize enough. (no offense to the homosexual community, just not for me) So while I understand that you may have been hurt recently, I don't see how throwing yourself a pity party is going to help any. A lot of guys do suck at relationships, but so do a lot of girls. The real trick to learn is to keep searching in spite of that. Besides, of all the people out there, only one of them has to be a good match.

Answer 5

It appears to me that you attract guys who do not know how to treat a lady and well think only with the head between there legs. Maybe it is time to go for the not so hot guy and maybe something will come out of it. Really alot of the hot guy's are gay, taken, or just dumb as posts. Find the handsome guy that may not have the perfect body but will listen to you and treat you with the respect you deserve.

May God Bless You and Best Wishes.

Answer 6

Select the men whose company you wish wisely; obviously you are meeting the wrong type of men or you're giving off the wrong signals to them.
All I know is that most of the men in the world have the same feeling we women do, deep inside, and they aren't as jaded as you are making them out to be. Majority of men I met treated me wonderfully; sure always a few jerks out there, but they are in the minority.

Answer 7

There are some good Godly men out their that would first want to get to know you on an intellectual level not having an ulterior motive in having sex with you. There are men out there who would like you for just you, your personality, the way you carry yourself, and respectful to you and themselves. There are men out there that desires to wait to have sex until marriage....My question to you is where are you finding these men??? Are these the type of men you're usually attracted to? Do the way you dress attract certain types of men???

Answer 8

I don't understand the last phrase about the penis, because I don't know where else it should go. But I totally agree with you about men. I hate them. I've been totally single and sex-free for three years and it's been the happiest time of my life. NO DRAMA, NO GUESSING, NO HEARTACHE!!

Answer 9

My guess is that you say you are looking for a specific guy and then when he is standing there in front of you, he is not good enough for whatever reason.

Try stepping back and looking at what would make you happy. What would rock your world outside of looks.

Try dating a guy that meets these standards not just material or physical.

Good luck.

Answer 10

Try going for a different type. Whatever your going for obviously isn't what you want. Where are you meeting these men, that also could be a clue. If you want something serious, don't look for men in a bar.