Everything in my life has been going wrong. My family members said they hate me since day one. I'm starting to think that death is the only thing that will ease my life. Please Help.
2007-11-21 03:20:33 · 30 answers · asked by TK 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Although it may not seem like it at times, there ARE people that care, and it's a shame that people don't realize how much they can hurt someone with words.
Call the suicide hotline - someone is waiting to talk with you. You ARE worth it and you deserve better.
God bless.
1-800-784-2433
http://suicidehotlines.com/
2007-11-21 03:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by gdub1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I say may not make sense to you but I'll try. I was in the same place you were in 2002. I was far enough along I had made sure all my bank accounts could be transferred without a hassle and everything was up to date and ready to go. I even had my house cleaned from top to bottom. A good friend of mine called, asked if I would help him over the weekend with some handicapped kids at a camp. I owed him a few favors so I agreed. I got home late Sunday night and guess what? My problems are small, they aren't s-hit. I've been giving time and money to the kids since then, my problems never got big after that weekend.
2007-11-21 11:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems.
What's going on now is temporary. You'll grow, and eventually you'll have the option of listening to those family members, or just ignoring them. The things that have been going wrong will not result in permanent harm - the job will straighten itself out, the smashed car can be replaced, the girlfriend may move on, but there are other girls.
Stay with us. You are the only one of us who can accomplish the destiny that has been laid out for you. (What, you want me to do my thing AND become rich and famous like YOU were supposed to???) Seriously, you are not with us here on Earth to be a burden or a pariah - you are here to fulfill your place on the team and to do the great things that will have folks remember you forever.
Talk to an adult. Talk to the guidance counselor at school, or a friend's mom, or the minister at church, or even the produce guy at the supermarket. You don't have to be all complaining about each problem, but you do have to ask what value you have here with us.
Get the answers. Your value is something you have to know about, and you can't leave without learning what that value is.
There are a lot of statistics out there. Be a person we know and care about, not a cold statistic on some list.
Stay with us. Permanent solutions to temporary problems don't make sense.
Report back here next year and tell us how it went. Thanks.
2007-11-21 11:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Stuart 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let em hate you. They probably mean they hate what you've done. Step back and look at your life. Do you think you've made some bad choices? If you have, its o.k. We all do it. Its part of being human. Call a friend that lives far way, ask if you can come stay for a while until you can sort things out. Review your mistakes, get a new job, make new friends, and then my friend, go dancing. Dance until theres nothing left. Laugh and realize, its just a thang. Fill your life with new people, new places and new things. It really can all be different with one phone call...... I'm counting on you.
2007-11-21 11:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh. You know, it really upsets me when people these days are all "cut cut die die bleeeed".
Is life really that bad? I mean COME ON. There are people out there with their faces in the mud wondering if they'll live to see the sun come up. They keep pushing on and KEEP TRYING. Some of the best people I know come from really crappy parents.
So your parents are assholes. Is that really any reason to want to die? Personally, I think it's a little selfish. There are kids starving, dying from AIDs, and being beaten and sexually assaulted. They would probably take the life you have and appreciate it.
Do you have no compassion? Live and live well. Your choices are your own. You make decisions that advise YOUR life, nobody else. You can either choose to live above it, or choose to be weak and give in to the smaller picture of life.
2007-11-21 11:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke M. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so you think that suicide is the best resort then I say otherwise. Life is not and never going to be easy. Get professional help if you can afford it and if not try to go to social advisor on your nearest community house. Try talking to a friend you trust and know you inside out but don't give up yet as long as you haven't tried other solutions. Suicide is the cowards way out and I think that you are not one to take that even though you think right now it is. You are hurting right now and the people you think who're supposed to be there for you is not there. Don't know wehter you hurt them or you did something they didn't approve but still there are support groups everywhere. PLEASE SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP. AND DON'T GIVE UP JUST YET. GOOD LUCK
2007-11-21 11:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Roan29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the phone book and find a suicide hot line number; talk to a counselor. If your under 18 call the Boys/Girls Town hot line at 1-800-448-3000. Don't let your hopelessness get to you.. its just so high during the holiday season.. and it ruins a lot of lives for those who give into those feelings.
2007-11-21 11:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thoughts of killing yourself can be related to chemical inbalances in your brain. I know I used to have them. See a dr! They are there to help you, utalize them. Don't put so much thought into what your family thinks, who cares what they think, as long as you are happy with yourself then I don't see a problem. If you arent happy with yourself take the steps to fix whatever you don't like so you will be comfy with yourself. There is to much in this world and you only live once, you don't want to miss out because other people have big noses and want to drag you down. I can garentee that your family just needs a dumping ground because they dont want to own up to their own problems, don't let them do it to you!
2007-11-21 11:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by bankcib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you feel that way
Right now things seem impossible
Right now only
not always
not tomorrow
work on making things better Right now
dont chicken out and Quit life
Face the obstacles head on
good luck
I will Pray that you do get some help
2007-11-21 11:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by caretaker 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think Stuart says it best. Look towards the future. Maybe your family members are part of the problem. Depend on your higher power/yourself. Talk to professionals and leave amateurs alone. Self-love, get some.......
2007-11-21 11:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋