shes very 'prim and proper', I dont know how to get her to dress me as a girl, any ideas
2007-11-21 02:12:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm not gay, I just like dressing as a girl from time to time
2007-11-21 02:13:18 · update #1
I think honesty is the best policy. Sit her down and tell her that this is something you enjoy doing and would she please help you enjoy this? Ask her if there's anything you can do for her. Let her know that you are willing to set rules so she doesn't become uncomfortable (like let her know you won't wear anything feminine outside in public, etc.)
Get it out in the open now, so she can make up her mind if she wants to stick around or if this is too freaky for her. Don't make her waste her time if she's not interested in helping you with this.
Personally, I think this is fairly tame. I'd let my husband dress up to his heart's content, just so long as he bought his own clothing and left mine the heck alone.
2007-11-21 02:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask her. She should know about your desires. Suppose she came to your place and found some ladies clothing laying around or tucked away somewhere? She would think you're cheating on her!
Go very very slowly! You could break it to her by mentioning how nice her panties feel to the touch and you'd like to try them on.... I would not enter a room stark naked and ask her to dress you a girl... Slowly is better.
If she does not want to and thinks it is not proper, then, get a new gf. Sorry, but it ain't gonna work out.
But if she does, it would wonderful for her and you!
2007-11-27 11:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Movinonup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her & ask.
If she has no clue this is heading her way, try & arrange for her to catch sight of some form of media exposure (film, telly programme, magazine, paper etc) first so you can get a few comments from her & a hint or 2 on how to tackle the issue.
My fella & I have great fun when he's dressing (as well as the rest of the time!) & even though I have good days & bad, he wouldn't be him without it.
When you've told her, if she want's someone to talk to/listen to her, let her know she can give me a shout.
Good luck.
2007-11-21 11:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mindless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for a costume party. Maybe New Years or Mardi Gras. That will give you a chance to see if she's open to the idea.
But if she's not, I suggest you look for a new gf. If you're serious about playing dress up and she's not, it's not gonna work. If she is, tell her how much you like it and make sure she's OK with the idea. A cross-dressing friend told me that many women are OK with the idea of cross-dressing, but fewer are OK with the idea of their hubby cross-dressing.
2007-11-21 10:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Meg W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a bet saying if she loses she has to dress like a boy.
then act like thats all and she'll 90% of time say you have to dress up as a girl or suggest after pausing.
Then say each other supply and dress the loser.
If you asked us this question you can add on to this all you have to do is give her a few hints.
or
Straight out ask her.
2007-11-23 23:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by living one day at a time 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be prim n proper but i bet if given the chance she be a dirty girl lol.
just talk to her ask her if she has any fetishes or has ever thought about sleeping with a chick, there are ways to do it, you could always just be a fool one day and screw around a bit then ask her if she will dress you cos you want to see what its like, that you dont want to walk around the street but just see how she reacts.
of course it would be better to find a partner who is into that if thats something that really tickles your testicles.
2007-11-21 10:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Micheal Jones 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a transvestite that is not going to go away and if you wish to enter in to a serious relationship with somebody then they should know that important fact about you. So have as serious conversation with her about it. If she id dead against it then you best find someone else. I have found all the ladies I have told that I am transvestite are either amused or very interested so I think you stand a good chance of her accepting you as you are
2007-11-21 11:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah know what? If you don't feel comfortable discussing your sexual needs with her, maybe you need to grow up a bit and become more comfortable with yourself and your needs. On the other hand as suggested by other posters, get some material, talk with her and mean I serious talk about mutual needs, fantasies and such and see where it goes from there...you never know, your girlfriend could turn out to be a real freak in the bedroom and you'll never know until you find the confidence to discuss this with her.
2007-11-21 10:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she's not open to the idea already, I'd look for some pop culture magazine articles about straight guys who like to dress up, and show them to her. Ask her to think about it, and let her warm up to the idea.
2007-11-21 10:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kara J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite what some might suggest, you are not a pervert at all, it's been proven many times that 'dressing up' isn't uncommon with a large number of married couples.
I do think you need to talk to her about it, i also think you need to approach it gently, let her see that it is merely to enhance your sex lives, to add some spice to it, you might even be surprised because she might be up for it!
Maybe you could get into the subject by talking about fantasies, get her to tell you hers, then you tell her yours, ie crossdressing!
Take it from there. x
2007-11-21 10:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Leia Nicole Black 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋